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HOUSEHOLD ORGANIZATION.


BY

MRS. CADDY.


"From my tutor I learnt endurance of labour, and to want little, and to
work with my own hands."--EMPEROR MARCUS AURELIUS.


LONDON:
CHAPMAN AND HALL, 193, PICCADILLY.
1877.




PREFACE.


One fine August bank-holiday many thoughts, more or less connected with
the day, prompted me to write this essay, so forcibly did it appear
that people required help to make their lives easier and happier.

Since then there have been several bank-holidays; and though trade is
depressed throughout the country, though financial panic has ruined
thousands, yet the demand for beer, spirits, and tobacco is as great as
ever; the hollow gaieties of life are as noisy as ever--perhaps the
more so for being more hollow; still our most precious friends kill
themselves with overwork--mental pulverization. If they eased their
minds by employing their hands they might yet live, even though many
could not, last autumn, afford to buy the breath of sea or mountain air
which would have strengthened them for the burdens of the new year.
Those who were wise and who had capital invested it in health, that
being likely to bring them in the best return.

We have had seven years of the highest national prosperity. Although
fictitious, it gave us pleasure while it lasted, and we were able to
enjoy all that life has to offer in its perfection. We may be going to
pass through seven years of dearth, so we must husband our resources of
health and wealth, instead of drawing upon them in the reckless way we
have lately accustomed ourselves to do. Some years of scarcity may be a
blessing to us all, if they lead us back from the habits of excess and
idleness we have fallen into, and particularly the craving for
excitement, whether in the form of literature, or by means of
stimulants and cordials (absinthe).

A plain but short statement of our national losses will show the
necessity of economizing the goods we still possess, financial as well
as physical.

Independent of the stagnation of trade which paralyzes every branch of
our commerce, we have lately had losses through foreign loans more
severe than any we have experienced during the present century.

Since the announcement by Turkey in October, 1875, that the interest on
the Turkish debt would be reduced, there has been a great fall in
foreign stocks. The debt of Turkey--roughly speaking, £200,000,000--has
fallen, say, £125,000,000 in value. Egyptian securities, not including
the floating debt, approximately estimated at £60,000,000, have fallen
some £20,000,000 in value. In smaller stocks the fall has probably been
some £20,000,000; and since the breaking out of the Eastern Question,
Russian stocks, at an aggregate of about £165,000,000, have fallen 12
per cent., or a sum equal to more than £20,000,000 sterling.

Besides these calamities there have been in England, as shown by a
recent return, 1,797 commercial failures, representing liabilities of
£30,000,000 sterling, and it has been calculated that of the firms and
persons occupied in business, 3 per cent. have been unable to meet
their engagements.

These losses will account for less familiar faces being seen in the
Park in the season, for the numerous houses unlet in fashionable
quarters, for grouse-moors going almost begging; and, among many other
significant facts, Tattersall, who generally has 150 applications for
coachmen on his books, has now 150 coachmen applying to him for
situations.

In our present abundance of money, through dearth of safe investments,
many persons have purchased art treasures; which would be wise, but for
the pain it always causes to part with things that have once adorned
our homes, which makes this not a happy speculation.

It would be the part of a screech-owl to cry Woe! woe! and hoot
triumphantly over the distresses of our country; but there seems so
much of hope and promise in the fact of our meeting reverses of fortune
with courage, that we cannot feel that a real disaster has overtaken
us. We have in the case of France an example of how a great nation can
rise renewed in strength out of overwhelming troubles, and our trial is
less severe than that of France.

It is not good for any people to sit down to eat and drink and rise up
to play, any more than it is good for children to feed upon delicacies
in lieu of simple fare. Persons suddenly reduced from affluence to
comparative poverty may be glad of a few hints to show them how
happiness and refinement are by no means incompatible with a smaller
condition of fortune, with a shorter purse; for, after all, the purse
is not the pleasure, it only helps us to procure it; our own taste and
feeling must teach us what true pleasure is.

It may be demurred that some of the household improvements suggested in
this book would be expensive to carry out--such, for instance, as the
arrangement of the kitchen; and this is true: but looked at as an
investment, they would yield large interest, and it might be prudent to
invest under one's own eye, in one's own house, some of the capital we
cannot afford to sink. If used in economizing wages, it will give us a
profitable return.

We do not hesitate to lay out money in improvements on our farms. Why,
then, need we fear to arrange our dwellings in accordance with
principles of true economy, so that the ladies of our families may be
able to co-operate with us in advancing the benefit of all? Every
family might be its own Economical Housekeeping Company (Limited),
comprising in itself its shareholders and board of directors, realizing
cent. per cent. for its money, because £200 a year would go as far as
£400.

If we save the money we now spend upon keeping servants to do our work
for us, we shall have more to spend on our holidays, and so shall feel
all the more refreshed by our respite from work.

Much is said in this book about superfluities, but although some
passages may seem to give colour to such an idea, it is by no means
wished to convey the recommendation that our homes and lives are to be
bare of beauty. On the contrary, I hanker after profusion and love
plenty, but wish them to be placed where they will not give more labour
than pleasure, where they will not hamper our every movement at every
moment, making us ever wear a sort of moral tight kid-gloves, be the
weather hot or cold.

The rock which theories split upon is that they generally presuppose
that we can make our lives, and are in independent position and good
circumstances, whereas this is seldom the case. The majority of us are
neither in good circumstances nor independent: often we have had no
control over the purchase of our very furniture; so we must make the
best of what we have, only, when we have the opportunity of making a
change, let it be a reform as well as a change. My main object in
writing this essay has been to show how frequently, and in how short a
time, the saving effected by a reform covers the cost of carrying it
out.

In the case of young couples about to marry, and beginning to plan
their lives, any work will be good which aids them to lay down their
plans according to rules of economy and common sense.

_January, 1877._




CONTENTS


                                                                 PAGE

THE DIFFICULTY.

Impossibility of getting good servants--Over-civilization--Labour has
been made hideous--Sleeping partnership--Wealth exempt from this
difficulty--Refinement of the professional class--Credit--Phase of
insecurity and scarcity--Sweet are the uses of adversity--English
people do not fear work--Servants too readily changed--Wilfulness of
servants--Upper servants are easily obtained--Servants feel the
pressure of the times--Ornamental servants costly luxuries--Two
questions--Work must be efficiently done--Woman's work--Misuse of
time--We keep servants to wait upon each other--Idleness--Pleasure
made a toil                                                         1

THE REMEDY.

Bad habits to be reformed--Late hours--Value of the long winter
evenings--Simplicity of manners--Over-carefulness--Instruction to
be gained from foreign nations--Our manners should be natural--
_Impedimenta_ in our households--Comparison of former times with our
own--Children trained to habits of consideration--Young men and boys
over-indulged--Reduction of establishments--Lady-helps--What is menial
work?--Picturesque occupation--What is lady-like--Amateur millinery--
Two subjects for an artist--Taste--Plan of the book--Eugénie de
Guérin                                                             20

THE ENTRANCE-HALL.

The evil of side doors--Difficulties with cooks--Who is to answer the
door?--Four classes of applicants--Arrangements for tradespeople--
Visitors--Furniture of the hall--Warming the passages--Dirt and
door-mats--The door-step--Charwomen                                40

BREAKFAST.

Lighting gas-fire--Difficulty of rousing servants--Family breakfast--
Cooking omelet--Hours of work and enjoyment--Duties of mothers and
householders--What is included in six hours' daily work--Clearing
away the breakfast--Bowl for washing the _vaisselle_--Ornamented
tea-cloths--Muslin cap worn while dusting--Use of feather-brush--
Cleaning windows--Advantages of gas-fire                           54

THE KITCHEN.

Parisian markets--No refuse food brought into a house--Catering in
London--Cooking-stoves--Pretty kitchen--Underground kitchens
objectionable--Kitchen level with the street door--Larder and
store-room--The dresser--Kitchen in the Swiss style--Herbs in the
window--Hygienic value of aromatic plants--Polished sink--Earthenware
scrap-dish--Nothing but ashes in dust-bin--Soap-dish--Plate-rack--
Kitchen cloths--Few cleaning materials necessary--Hand work better
than machine work--Washing at home--Knife-cleaning--Fuel-box--No work
in the kitchen unfit for a lady to do                              68

THE LADY-HELP.

True position of a lady-help--Division of work in a family--The mother
the best teacher--Marketing--Young lady-helps--Luncheon--Early dinners
for children--Recreation--Preparing the late dinner--Evening tea--The
lady-help a gentlewoman--Her assistance at breakfast--Her spare time--
Tact                                                               88

THE DINING-ROOM.

Carpets and curtains--Picture hanging and frames--Distemper colouring
for cornices--Oval dining-table--Sideboard for breakfast service--
Beauty of English porcelain--A London dining-room--Giulio Romano's
banquet--Growing plants--The large sideboard--Dinner-service--Styles
of dinner--Food in due season--Gracefulness of flowers and fruits--
Fresh fruit better than preserves--Communication between kitchen and
dining-room--Remarks on plate--Table decorations                  103

THE DRAWING-ROOM.

Social pressure--Agreeable evening parties--Troubles of party-giving--
Musical parties--Flowers on a balcony--Window-gardening--Crowded
drawing-rooms--The library or study--Gas, candles, and candlesticks--
Original outlay on furniture--Different styles of furniture--Raffaelesque
decorations--Carpets, curtains, and chair coverings--Portières--Window
blinds--Rugs--Care required in buying furniture--Ornaments--Dusting--
Chiffoniers useless--Portfolio stand--Mirrors                     127

BED AND DRESSING ROOMS.

Ventilation--Window curtains and blinds--Bedsteads--Spring mattresses
--Towels--Danger of fire at the toilet--Mantelpiece--Pictures and
frames--Superfluous necessaries--Taine's criticisms--Aids to reading in
bed--Service of the bath--Improvements in washstands--Arranging the
rooms--Attics made beautiful--Sick-rooms--Neatness--Disinfectants--
Chlorine gas--Condy's solution--Filters--Invalid chairs--Generous
efforts of the medical profession to improve the national health  155

THE EDUCATION OF GIRLS.

To what age should boys' and girls' education be alike?--Accomplishments
fruitlessly taught--Nursery and school-room government--Helplessness
--Introduction to society--The convent system--Unhappy results--
Scientific education--Geometrical illustration--Religion--Professional
life for women--Home training--Varied knowledge--Companionship of a
mother--Experience--Kindness--Truth                               182

SUNDAY.

Children's Sundays made wearisome--Sunday precious to workers--Moral
workers--Moral vices--Our gifts--Misuse of them--Necessary work on
Sunday--Diminished by management--Sunday prevents us living too
fast--The rest must be earned--Sunday repairs the human machine   202




HOUSEHOLD ORGANIZATION.




THE DIFFICULTY.

Impossibility of getting good servants--Over-civilization--Labour has
been made hideous--Sleeping partnership--Wealth exempt from this
difficulty--Refinement of the professional class--Credit--Phase of
insecurity and scarcity--Sweet are the uses of adversity--English
people do not fear work--Servants too readily changed--Wilfulness of
servants--Upper servants are easily obtained--Servants feel the
pressure of the times--Ornamental servants costly luxuries--Two
questions--Work must be efficiently done--Woman's work--Misuse of
time--We keep servants to wait upon each other--Idleness--Pleasure
made a toil.


For a long time past we, the middle-classes of England, have felt a
great household perplexity, one which has been a daily burden to us
all. This is the difficulty, almost impossibility, of getting good
servants.

Machinery, though it has lightened other branches of labour and
cheapened production, has not helped us much here. Social science has
been deeply studied, but nothing practical has yet been brought to bear
upon this vexed question. The theories are good, the projected reforms
better; but so far there is nothing that people of average intellect,
and moderate income, can take hold of and apply to their own case.
During the late plethora of wealth throughout the nation, we have so
multiplied our wants, and so refined upon the ruder social ideas of the
early part of the century, that our servants have not been able to keep
pace with our requirements; and notwithstanding that the lower orders
have much more careful education than they had formerly, it seems to be
of a sort which makes them discontented with their work, rather than
instructing them how to do it better.

In fact, we have degraded labour by making it hideous, by pushing it
into holes and corners, by shrinking from it ourselves, and casting it
entirely into the hands of the lower orders; until we English are
virtually divided into a contemplative and a working class. This would
be all very well if it were true that our class could afford to pay
liberally for work done well; but, in effect, the majority of those who
wish to be relieved from work cannot pay liberally for hired labour,
neither can the bulk of the labouring class perform their part of the
bargain in a manner deserving liberal payment.

We have tried to keep ourselves as sleeping partners in the domestic
concern; we have derived profit from our money invested in service, and
we find that this is no longer a profitable investment. There is a
large wealthy order exempt from these difficulties. By having ample
means of recompense, it has the flower of service at its command, and
the domestic economy of the mansions of England is perfect. Under
steward and housekeeper, this may be compared to the beautiful system
seen on board a large ship of war, for discipline, routine, and
celerity of service. In both instances the reverse of the shield shows
the injurious effects on the lower ranks of a large proportion of
unoccupied time, spent in merely waiting for their hours of duty.

The suggestions I have to offer are not required by this wealthy
class--the upper ten thousand, as they are popularly called, whose
incomes range among the four and five figures; but help seems to be
much needed by the upper twice ten hundred thousand who have incomes
described by three figures, and who yet, by good birth, breeding, and
education, form the backbone of England; whose boys, though only
home-boarders at Eton, Harrow, and Rugby, fill all the other large
schools of Great Britain, and whose daughters are the flowers of our
land.

Of late years England has been passing through a period of unexampled
prosperity, so much so as to make the customs of wealth a familiar
habit with even those who only possess a competence. To them the
domestic difficulty is very great, since they exact from inferior
servants the quality of service that can only be obtained from the best
trained of their order. This occasions disappointment and irritation.
The people whose means are inadequate to the gratification of their
tastes belong mainly to the professional classes, whose brain-work most
demands repose at home; yet these are, beyond all others, perplexed by
the increasing toils and troubles of home life. They find that a
struggle which should be peace, and so the whole machinery of their
lives is thrown out of gear.

This upper working-class is so occupied by endeavours to make the
fortune, or, if not fortune, at any rate to make both ends meet--which
has been denied them by birth or accident--that they have no time nor
energy left to think these things out for themselves. So they go on
bearing the yearly increasing load piled upon them by the tyranny of
fashion, of custom, or by their wish to keep up their credit in the
eyes of the world; for their credit is in many cases their fortune, and
it must be upheld at any sacrifice. A question occurs to many: Is this
credit best maintained by outward appearances, or is it more firmly
secured by seeming strong enough to dispense with artificial support?
And, again, Is our money credit the best we can have?

A man of known wealth may go about in a shabby coat, a countess may
wear a cheap bonnet, a Sidonia may dine off bread and cheese. If
Gladstone fells trees, he is still Gladstone; if Ruskin grubs up a
wood, he is still a great poet.

Without becoming mere _dilettanti_, may we not enjoy a reputation
for taste, and so allow ourselves to be heedless of a few of the
conventional proprieties of life; as a tree rises above the level of
the grass? May we not strive, by the culture of our manners and
discourse, to make our simpler social entertainments as highly prized
as the feasts of our richer neighbours? The years of prosperity have
passed away, and we seem to have entered upon a phase of society when
scarcity and insecurity overwhelm or threaten us all; when the wealth
of yesterday has crumbled into dust, the paper money shrivelled as if
it had been burnt. We still have the same high culture, the tastes and
feelings of yesterday; and unfortunately, the same habits of Idleness,
Helplessness, Waste, and Luxury.

These are hard charges to bring against the cream of a nation which for
centuries has held its own by its energy, abundance of resource,
strength of character, and scorn of effeminacy; but it is impossible to
deny that these characteristics of the British race have been much less
strongly marked of late years. Still, these things are in our nature,
and we must not weakly let ourselves decline from our former high
standard.

Let us, at the outset of our adversity, meet our altered circumstances
with the strength of mind and wisdom befitting English people. Although
wealth may be taken from us, we have our education and energy left,
which, if properly used, will not allow us to sink into a lower
condition than we have hitherto enjoyed; and while we hold our ground
we shall strengthen our health, develop our ability, and increase our
happiness.

Let us, the women of England, encourage and support the men in an
endeavour to return to simplicity of life, to a more manly condition;
call it Spartan, Roman, republican, what you will, it is, in fact, the
training of soul and body. We have had a long holiday; let us return to
school with renewed vigour. We women have been much to blame for the
degeneracy which has been felt of late. If men trifle away their time
and health upon tobacco, women are foolishly helpless, and they permit
their dependents to be wantonly wasteful. Both men and women pass the
best hours of daylight in their beds, and make their meals the
important event of their days.

Englishmen abroad do not mind work--indeed, they may be said to love
it--and never since the days of Drake have they felt it to be a
degradation. He said "he would like to see the gentleman that would not
set his hand to a rope and hale and draw with the mariners;" and herein
the English differ from continental nations. But in England they let
their love of bodily exertion have its scope almost exclusively in
their games. Nor do Englishwomen in the Colonies shrink from work, and
they are never in the least ashamed of it. You hear them talk quite
freely of how Colonel So-and-so called in the morning while they were
"stuffing the veal," to ask for the two first dances at the ball at
Government House in the evening.

It seems to be only in England that we dread to be seen doing anything
useful. And unless we soon cast off this fear we shall be condemned to
the deadly-liveliness of Hotel Companies (Limited), with their
uninteresting routine; for the supply of servants not being forthcoming
at our price, we must of necessity be reduced to this levelling
American system, which will flatten all individuality out of us.

One cause of the ever-increasing difficulty of holding a staff of
servants well in hand is that our connection with them is too easily
changed or dissolved at pleasure. We should bear ourselves very
differently towards each other if we knew we were compelled to live
together during even one year certain. As the case now is, we do not
get to know each other, and a small trial of temper on either side is
the prelude to a change. The old patriarchal feeling of considering the
servants as members of the family has quite died out, and so their
relation to us has become confused. At times we rate them with the
tradespeople who come periodically to polish our bright stoves, clean
our chandeliers, and wind our clocks, and so we only care whether they
do their specified work well or ill, taking no further trouble about
them; sometimes we treat them as the horses which draw our carriage,
and see that they are well fed accordingly; and sometimes we look upon
them as machines merely.

We hear it said, servants do not take the interest in their places that
they used to do; they are ready to leave you on the smallest
provocation; they will not be told how to do any particular thing; they
have their way, and if you do not like it, well, they think your place
will not suit them. Indeed, one of the most docile and obliging among
the servants I have known, on differing with his employer about some
work in which he was engaged, said, "Well, I'll do it a little bit your
way, and a little bit my way; and that will be fair, won't it, mum?"

It is easy enough to get servants of the superior
grades--ladies'-maids, parlour-maids, and even house-maids, where two
footmen are kept; but is there such a being as a really good plain
cook, or has a servant-of-all-work been heard of lately? Although it is
truly said that servants themselves are beginning to feel the pressure
of the times, this is not from their actual losses by money-market
panics, but from the fact that many domestics are out of place on
account of those families who have met with losses dispensing with
unnecessary assistance. But that does not ease our case, for we are
none the less helpless and dependent. Although many upper servants are
out of place, this does not make them seek our situations; and if they
did so, they would do us a positive injury by bringing into our houses
the habits of wealthier families. The reduction of wages, and lack of
suitable situations in England, will cause these unemployed servants to
seek in emigration the high wages they are still secure of in the
Colonies, or in America. There they will be a godsend, and they may
reasonably look forward to establishing themselves permanently and
happily.

Independently of the collapse of foreign securities and the general
depression of trade, the increased cost of all necessaries makes it
impossible to many of us to allow ourselves luxuries, of which the most
costly are ornamental servants; and the difficulty of obtaining any
others makes it incumbent on us to put our own shoulders to the wheel,
and try by diligent self-help to solve some of the problems which so
miserably defy us to find a practical answer.

In this consideration of the subject of domestic work in middle-class
households, I hope to show in what way the mistress may be rendered
more self-reliant, and how the master's purse may be spared the
perpetual drain the present system entails upon it at both ends, and
from every mesh.

This is but a fraction of a vast subject, yet it is in itself so large,
and stretches out into such a variety of kindred topics, that it is
difficult to compress it into a form small enough to be easily handled,
and still more difficult to make suggestions of reform generally
palatable, since many vanities must be hurt by a proposal to reduce
establishments, and sensitive feelings wounded by the bluntness of two
direct practical questions--

1st. Must the great majority of our young ladies be elegant
superfluities?

2nd. Must we keep many servants to wait upon each other?

These questions I hope to answer usefully in the following pages.

We must begin with the understanding that in every house there is work
to be done, and that somebody must do it. Our aim will be to reduce its
compass, and to do what remains in the cheapest and pleasantest way.
But it must be efficiently done, which is seldom the case when young
ladies play at housekeeping, which too often means giving out the
pepper, and such like. We have long shrunk from allowing our women to
work at all. Husbands and fathers have taken a pride in keeping the
ladies of their households in that state of ease that no call need be
made on them to lift a finger in the way of useful work; so that if
reverses befal them, their condition is deplorable indeed.

Now we are turning round and insisting upon every woman being able to
support herself by her own exertions. Though a great part of woman's
natural work has been taken out of her hands by machinery, this, which
is mainly the preparation of clothing, was the occupation of her
uncultivated leisure, and did no more than fill up the time which we
now devote to culture. By retreating from our active household duties
we now divide our time between culture and idleness, or the union of
both in novel-reading.

For many years conscientious teachers tried to drive us to household
work by calling it our duty: a dull name, sternly forbidding us to find
pleasure or interest therein. It was a moral dose of physic, salutary
but disagreeable. In the same way we were taught to make shirts and
mend stockings, but an evening dress was held to be frivolity. Taste
was discouraged, and beauty driven out of our work; no wonder, then,
that the young and careless shunned it altogether, and threw as much of
it as they could into the hands of hirelings. Is there no way of
teaching duty without making it repulsive by its dreariness and
ugliness?

Now that we pride ourselves upon being no longer weak-minded and silly,
let us exert ourselves to act upon Lord Bacon's maxim, "Choose the life
that is most useful, and habit will make it the most agreeable." We
need not fear that the routine of daily handiwork--which will become
interesting to us as we try to make it agreeable--will interfere with
our further intellectual culture. And even should it do so, are not our
leaders of thought beginning to perceive that manual labour is more
commercially valuable than mental labour; that the demand for the
former is greater as the supply becomes perceptibly less? The deadness
of machine work causes us to prize the spirited and varied touch that
can only be imparted by the hand. Every woman, among her acquaintance,
knows some one who is a skilful, energetic manager of her house, and
yet whose reading and accomplishments are above the average. Indeed, as
I heard one of my friends of this stamp say, when asked how she found
time for so much sketching from nature, "One always finds time for what
one likes to do."

We see what priceless possessions we lose by our misuse of time, or
waste of it in inanities, when we look at the embroideries and other
work of our ancestresses, and compare these with the poor results of
our months and years. We see splendid embroideries of the time of
Titian, with the needlework still strong enough to outlast all our
nonsense in "leviathan stitch" and "railroad stitch;" and old lace, by
the side of which our work of mingling woven braids and crochet in such
a manner as to get most show for the least cost of taste, labour, and
invention, is worth nothing at all.

With regard to my second question--Must we keep many servants to wait
upon each other?--I will here make one observation.

The heaviest part of the work of a cook and kitchen-maid consists in
preparing the kitchen meals. Six servants require as many potatoes
peeled, and as many plates, knives, forks, etc., cleaned, as six ladies
and gentlemen. Multiply their five meals a day by six, and you will
find that there are thirty plates, knives, forks spoons, cups or
glasses, and many other things, to be laid on the table, used, washed,
and put away again, at a computation of only one plate to each meal.

Think of the time alone consumed in this, and the breakage; and this
merely in the meals.

I am not considering the houses which require a complement of ten
servants to keep their machinery in motion, as these do not form part
of my subject; but this slight calculation will enable us to form some
estimate of the cost of maintaining a large retinue.

We may well ask why we have drifted into this enormous expenditure, and
for what purpose we have gradually let our houses be filled up by a
greedy and destructive class, who, notwithstanding many bright
exceptions, seem to combine the vices of dirt, disorder, extravagance,
disobedience, and insolence. Why, indeed? For this simple reason, that
we are idle. Gloss it over as we may, by calling it a desire to secure
time for higher ends, the truth remains the same; we have neglected our
duty in order that we may live in idleness and devote ourselves to
pleasure. But if our lives are to be spent in pleasure, we shall
ourselves degenerate; for pleasure wears out the body more than work,
and excitement more than both. Let us take our appointed burden of
steady work, and bear it onwards cheerfully and patiently. By so doing
we shall feel it grow gradually lighter. It is not such slavery as the
oar to which we chain ourselves. The artificial strain on our lives
must be kept up by stimulants, and idleness must be roused by
excitement. But our routine of gaiety is no idleness; and as for its
name--gaiety--there never was a term more false. The gaiety is a hollow
mockery, masking fatigue, untruth, and disappointment.

Sidney Smith says, "One of the greatest pleasures of our lives is
conversation." If we will simply allow ourselves to talk upon subjects
of common interest, we shall find social gatherings less wearisome than
when we have to manufacture small-talk for civility's sake alone. If we
meet together for enjoyment instead of for display, we shall replace
dissipation--mere dissipation of time (what an endeavour for mortals,
whose time is their life!)--by gaiety of heart, which is the best
restorative to wearied spirits.

Let us Englishwomen make a strong effort to rescue ourselves from this
bondage, this constant drain on our resources; and, leaving to men the
duty to the state, let us seek our work in what is our duty--the rule
and guidance of the house, securing, as Ruskin says, "its order,
comfort, and loveliness."

But especially must we insist upon its loveliness, which is the point
most neglected in all that portion of our lives which does not lie
immediately upon the surface.




THE REMEDY.

Bad habits to be reformed--Late hours--Value of the long winter
evenings--Simplicity of manners--Over-carefulness--Instruction to be
gained from foreign nations--Our manners should be natural--_Impedimenta_
in our households--Comparison of former times with our own--Children
trained to habits of consideration--Young men and boys over-indulged
--Reduction of establishments--Lady helps--What is menial work?--
Picturesque occupation--What is lady-like--Amateur millinery--Two
subjects for an artist--Taste--Plan of the book--Eugénie de Guérin.


Before speaking of work which has to be done in order to make our homes
comfortable and beautiful, it is necessary to point out what ought not
to be done.

We have fallen into one form of self-indulgence which goes far towards
unfitting us for work, except under the stimulus of excitement. This is
our national habit of keeping late hours.

This is an important matter, and one wherein every member of every
family may, if he pleases, aid reform. This, unless we are printers,
bakers, or policemen, is entirely in our own hands.

Later hours are kept in England than in any other part of the world,
and they grow later and later. We read in the life of the Prince
Consort how painfully he felt this difference between England and
Germany; yet the latitude and climate of the two countries differ but
little, and we are of the same race. It is merely a matter of custom.

Many persons pride themselves on breakfasting at ten o'clock, and nine
is thought quite an early hour in comfortable houses. It is deemed
aristocratic to breakfast late, as well as to dine late; and as the day
begun at ten o'clock would be too short for people to have a probable
chance of sleep at ten at night, they are obliged to sit up till after
midnight. Thus the best hours of the day are wasted, and the health of
many injured by remaining an unnecessary length of time in a gas or
paraffin laden atmosphere.

This shows an astonishing contrariety of disposition on the part of
persons of refined sensations, so completely does it reverse the order
of nature, which gives us the early sunshine for our enjoyment. Sunrise
is the only beautiful natural spectacle that we modern English do not
care about, except once or twice in our lives, when we get a shivering
glimpse of it from an altitude of many thousand feet above the level of
the sea.

From six to six is the natural day throughout by far the largest half
of the globe, and the nearer we bring our practice to this measure the
better; taking our day of sixteen hours (two-thirds of the twenty-four)
from six o'clock in the morning instead of from nine. Old folks in the
country ask their young people what is the good of sitting up burning
out fire and candle. We never ask ourselves this question in London.
Many persons take a nap after their heavy dinner, and only begin to
feel lively as the clock strikes ten. To these the midnight oil is
invigorating.

We have a valuable provision of nature in our long winter evenings,
reckoning them at from five till ten. This gives us time for study,
which we need more than do southern nations, to learn to contend
against our climate. The northern peoples are famed for their mental
culture: Scotland and Iceland bear witness to this. This is the season,
too, for work in wool, to provide warm garments which are not required
in the south. The wise woman does not fear the cold when her household
is clothed in scarlet. This is the time when we may gather round the
lamp or the fireside, and draw closer the family links under the
influence of social warmth and progress.

Simplicity in our meals and dress is another point in which we may
unite economy of money, time, and trouble, with comfort to ourselves
and a regard for the beautiful. We need not drift into the carelessness
of the picnic style of living, which is but the parody of simplicity.
The real picnic is only suited to a few exceptional days in the year,
and these our holidays. We may have simple meals indoors which should
have all the freedom of picnic without its inconveniences.

Do we not all remember Swiss breakfasts with pleasure: the
thyme-flavoured honey, and the Alpine strawberries? Or, better still,
those at Athens, where the honey of Hymettus is nectar, and the freshly
made butter ambrosia; and our enjoyment of both was enhanced by the
scent of the orange blossoms coming in at the open windows, and the
sight of sunrise glowing on the purple hills? Or luncheons in Italy,
under a pergola of vines, where a melon, macaroni, a basket of grapes,
and a tricolour salad constituted the feast?[1]

      [1] The tricolour salad imitates the Italian banner--red, white,
      and green. Green salad, beetroot, and cream, or white of egg
      whipped to snow.

These things dwell longer in our memories than does the aldermanic
banquet.

Although every faculty need not be swamped in the gratification of the
palate, our meals ought to give us pleasure. It is only when they are
made of supreme importance that the satisfaction of a healthy appetite
degenerates into mere greed, and what we call housekeeping means merely
thinking of dinner.

Simplicity allows play (not work) to our higher faculties, which cannot
be refreshed while we are overwhelmed with domestic cares.

"Martha was cumbered about," not with serving, but with too much
serving. Doubtless, in the fulness of her hospitality, she tried to do
too much, and so she showed irritability. Our Lord's teaching is always
that there are good things prepared for us, which we cannot attain if
we are over-careful and troubled about provision for the body.

There are roses in life for those who look for roses, if they will but
give themselves time to gather them.

We may study with instruction and profit to ourselves the daily habits
of foreign nations, and see where they fail, and also wherein they
excel us.

M. Taine has put into words an observation which must have occurred to
all of us who have travelled, how that "from England to France, and
from France to Italy, wants and preparations go on diminishing. Life is
more simple, and, if I may say so, more naked, more given up to chance,
less encumbered with incommodious commodities."

From Italy we may go on to Arabia, and there see how little is used to
keep the body in health. A woollen garment, warm enough to sleep in the
open air (we cannot say out of doors where there are no doors), and
thick enough to keep off the scorching rays of the sun by day, and a
thin shawl for the head, is all their clothing; and the simplest meal
once a day seems to be enough to keep them strong and active. Arabs
have walked or run by my horse during whole days in the heat of the
sun, and lived upon air until sundown, when they seemed to eat nothing
but a little parched corn before stretching themselves down to sleep.
It is not customary, even among the upper classes in Southern Europe
and in the East, to eat more than two meals a day.

Liebig tells us of the nutrition of plants from the atmosphere: we may
go further, and proclaim the nutrition of man from the atmosphere. On
the moorland, on the mountain side, at sea, and in the desert, I have
over and over again felt its feeding properties; and we know that
although we are, in such circumstances, hungry for our meals, we are
not at all exhausted, nor do we want to feed frequently.

As the leaves of a plant absorb the carbon in the air and give back the
oxygen, so do we feed upon the oxygen and return the nitrogen. But we
must have the oxygen. By our own present system of frequent heavy meals
we throw all the hard work done by our bodies entirely upon the
digestive organs, and when these are exhausted with their efforts, we
feel faint, and mistakenly ply them with stimulants and concentrated
nourishment, until at last they break down under their load.

But leaving the Arabs, who are types of a high race in a natural
(uneducated) condition, may we not learn much from more civilized
nations?

Besides taking example by the early hours of the Germans, we may
imitate their industry, and, in our studies, their thoroughness and
diligence of research.

From the bright, elastic French people we may (we women especially)
copy their cheerfulness, frugality, and their keen, clear-headed habits
of business. See how diligent they are at accounts, how quick at
estimates, in ways and means; how they sharpen their wit, until it
shines and makes their society sought as we in England seek a clever
book. The Frenchwoman works the machinery of her own house, goes into
the market and fixes the market-price of what she decides upon as
suitable to her purposes (she always has a purpose, this Frenchwoman);
she dresses herself and her children with taste, and she glitters in
society.

From the Spaniards we may learn, by the warning of a proud race, what
it is to sink into the scorn of other countries through smoking and
debt.

From the Dutch we may learn cleanliness, from the Swiss simplicity, and
from the Italians to foster our patriotism. Our American cousins are
part of our own family; they only differ from us in having carried our
virtues and some of our follies into the superlative.

We should endeavour to be natural in all our doings: to be ourselves,
and not always acting a part, and that generally the part of a person
of rank, or a millionaire. Let whatever we do be openly done, though
not obtrusively nor boastfully; and this whether it is ornamental or
only useful. To be truly ornamental it must combine utility. Is not the
flower as useful as the leaf?

As an example of what I mean, I will give two opposite instances. A
young lady was making the bodice of a dress when a visitor called; she
quickly pushed the work under a sofa pillow, and caught up a
gold-braided smoking-cap, half worked at the shop, which had lasted a
long time as a piece of show-needlework.

The other case is that of a lady who set up for an example to her sex,
and always displayed, as a manifestation of superiority, a basket full
of gentlemen's stockings, which she seemed to be ever mending. Both of
these ladies were acting a part.

Good taste has no false shame; so we need not add the vexations of
concealment to the accumulation of cares we have heaped upon our
houses, till they are so encumbered with _impedimenta_ of all kinds
that our whole strength is taken to keep them in order, and the
household machine has to move through such a mass of difficulties that
it is like a loaded carriage lumbering through a Turkish road. Why
should we add these things to life?

We are daily bringing mechanism to greater perfection, and it is our
own fault that we do not make it perform for our houses what Manchester
has made it do for our looms, and render ourselves mistresses in
reality, instead of merely in name, of our own households.

If we had to go back to the old flint-and-tinderbox days, when it was
an hour's hard work in the dark to strike a light, when gas was
unknown, when water was not laid on, when all bread must be made at
home, all stockings knitted; when there was no such thing as a ready
made shirt, much less gowns and polonaises; no perambulators, nor
washing machines;--we should not heap upon ourselves superfluous work
in the thoughtless way we do at present, and then leave all to the
attention of the most careless and irresponsible members of the
community.

In a small family there is less work to be done; in a large one there
are more hands to do the work, and many hands make light labour.

We would have no mistress of a family a household drudge, while her
daughters lounge over fancy-work or a novel; but we would ease her
hands, and uphold her in her true position of administratrix,
mainspring, guiding star of the home.

Modern educational pressure causes too many of us to indulge our
children, and release them from every personal duty. They must have
time and quiet for their studies, and so they are allowed to become
selfish, and to think that everything must give way to their mental
improvement. Whereas we should train them to give as little trouble as
possible; and by good management, or by sacrifices, such as getting up
earlier, to do at least the extra work appertaining to their individual
enjoyment. Why should they, for instance, require hot water brought to
their rooms several times a day? Their grandparents used cold, and it
was better for them. Why must girls have their hair brushed and braided
for them? Why must their lost gloves be found for them, and their
wardrobes tidily arranged for them to throw into confusion in their
hurry?

Boys, especially, are so seldom trained to habits of consideration,
that a young man in a house gives at least twice the trouble that his
father does. Boys ring bells with intense heedlessness of its being
some one's journey--oftener four journeys--to answer them. They make
their boots unnecessarily dirty, and their other clothes also; while
the extra baths on football days, and the cleansing of the white
garments, make many mothers wish the noble game were not so popular;
and to sweep up the dirt the boys bring into a house often constitutes
the chief work of a housemaid. We do not expect boys to mend their
clothes, but they should be made to put them away, and to keep their
books, papers, and toys in their proper places, and to take care of
their own pets.

We excuse young men from doing these things, instead of smoking or
novel-reading through the whole of their spare time, on the plea that
they work at money-making, forgetting that they do so for themselves,
and not, like their father, for the family benefit. We might reform
these things materially, and remove much of the self-indulgence which
causes what has been truly called "the shame of mixed luxury and misery
over our native land." If we all habitually gave less trouble, we
should require fewer servants to wait upon us.

There is a scarcity of good working servants, while the governess
market is largely over-stocked. How many thousand of the poorest
subjects of our Queen are now sinking, sick with hope deferred, into
despondence, hating the present, dreading the future.

And yet on all hands we hear our lady friends say, "We must all wait
upon ourselves now." The impossibility of finding the average of three
servants for every house in London being now recognized. Why need there
be three servants to every house, when servants are the greatest drain
to the fortune of a family, worse even than the dress and society of
its lady members, or than the tobacco of the men?

With study, and application of modern inventions, the three servants
might be reduced to two; the two-servant-power establishments might
dispense with one; and in many families where only one servant is kept,
a lady-help would be found more useful, as well as more ornamental,
than the "dolly-mop."

Trade is bad, and many young women, such as lace-makers, seek service.
But being of the lower orders does not necessarily make them efficient
servants, not more so than young ladies who have never learnt household
work.

The existing puzzle is how to utilize the lady-help, for we must always
bear in mind that she is a lady. She must not be merely ornamental,
nor may we expect her to do anything menial. And here we must
distinguish--this indeed is the great point for distinction--what is
menial and what is not, and then see if we can reduce the number of
works considered menial.

When we read of Marie Antoinette's delightful playing at work at the
Trianon, and think of her in her bewitching costume, her work, the
work she supposed herself to be doing, is placed in the region of
picturesque poetry; as Tennyson's gardener's daughter, training her
wreaths over the porch, is as poetical a personage as his pensive
Adeline or stately Eleonöre.

We hear that the daughters of Queen Victoria take pride in, and give
personal attention to, their dairies, and love to work among their
gardens and model farms. And the Prince Consort designed model cottages
for the poor in which it would be bliss to dwell, only it is
impracticable to make the poor endure novelties in domestic life. Why,
then, should we alone think it improper, unlady-like, and what not, to
study these every-day utilities, and plan improvements in sinks and
boilers?

But things are not so bad as they were thirty and forty years ago, as
regards what is lady-like and what is not. We are emancipated from the
thraldom of its being considered genteel to be idle, and interesting to
be helpless, unable to dress ourselves, or tie our own bonnet-strings
without the assistance of our maid. In my young days we always had to
wait for a maid to come and hook our dresses; we should not endure this
now.

The favourite story of the Queen always putting away her own bonnet,
and folding up the strings(!) helped much in sweeping away this
fanciful gentility. Since the introduction of the sewing-machine, made
as a piece of furniture fit for a lady's sitting-room, ladies have been
less ashamed to be seen making their own dresses; and every girl now,
of any pretension to taste, twists up her silk, tulle, and ribbons,
mingling them in hats and bonnets with flowers or feathers, the most
graceful objects in creation, until her skill produces a thing of
beauty which is a joy throughout the summer.

What artist would desire a more charming subject for his picture than a
pretty girl before her glass, trying in which position these delicate
gauds best become the face they will adorn. It is holding nature up to
the mirror. Yet some years ago girls were ashamed of a home-made
bonnet, because their careful elders taught them it was more virtuous
to make shirts than to cultivate their taste. The consequence was they
were obliged to pay some guineas for a bonnet, as amateur millinery was
a tissue of horrors.

The cooking-schools are helping us in another useful branch of
housewifery. Here again woman's work is being raised out of the dulness
of the "Berlin repository" into an atmosphere in which all the senses
may revel. Smell and taste are here perfectly satisfied, and here we
offer another picture for our imaginary artist--or perhaps the beholder
may be a lover.

What more captivating sight than the girl of his heart deftly moving
about among bright pots and kettles, and delicious bits of blue and
other ware, gleaming among the copper stewpans? Dutch tiles all round
the stove, and everything as picturesque as in a Friesland kitchen
(which we admire enough to go a long way to see), and the young
housewife in a fresh and prettily worked dress of Holland or cambric,
made short, showing her red morocco shoes, her sleeves short to the
elbow, with a dainty bib and apron to keep her dress from soil: she
rolling out pastry at a marble table, having by her side a graceful
ewer of water, or fanciful milk-pot, and, in neat arrangement, quaint
jars for jams, and pails and tubs of the carved wood which is so
artistically made by the Norwegian peasants. But I must fill up my
outlines further on, as I enter into detail of each department of the
house, and show how the first steps may be made easy in the direction
of pleasant employment which shall be both useful and economical.

Do not look upon the taste and beauty of details as unimportant. They
make up the harmony of our lives. Taste exercises a larger influence
than we give it credit for. What makes Paris flourish? Why do we all
enjoy it? Not for its Louvre galleries, nor for its intellectual life
and culture most, but for its tasty shops!

We will speak of the house in the following order. First, the hall by
which we enter it from the street; then we will bring our housewife
into the kitchen, not necessarily, nor even advisably, downstairs, but
near the entrance-door, so that the goods brought into the house need
not have far to travel and be lifted (which would entail fatigue)
before they reach the scene of their transmutation; the dining-room
will come naturally next to the kitchen, as it should be nearest in a
topographical sense.

Then we can adjourn to the withdrawing-room, and refresh ourselves with
_jardinière_ or conservatory before undertaking the arrangement of the
bed-rooms and nurseries, where we pass so large a portion of our lives;
and lastly, we will speak of the inhabitants, more particularly of the
children. In considering the latter, we shall find the greatest benefit
of anything I have recommended in this book, namely, that in place of
the low-minded words and sentiments and vulgar habits of those who come
nearest to ourselves in the society of our children, we may have a
higher and purer association, so that the good of their future
education will not have already been neutralized by corrupted early
principles.

By interesting occupation our young ladies will have less time for
sentimental troubles and fancied ill-health, which is nervousness.
Eugénie de Guérin hit the mark when she wrote, "Yes; work, work! Keep
busy the body, which does mischief to the soul! I have been so little
occupied to-day, and that is bad for one, and it gives a certain
_ennui_ which I have in me time to ferment." On another occasion
she speaks of having been writing and thinking, and then going back to
her spinning-wheel or a book, or taking a saucepan, or playing with her
dogs; and then she adds, "Such a life as this I call heaven upon
earth."




THE ENTRANCE-HALL.

The evil of side doors--Difficulties with cooks--Who is to answer the
door?--Four classes of applicants--Arrangements for trades-people
--Visitors--Furniture of the hall--Warming the passages--Dirt and
door-mats--The door-step--Charwomen.


Many of the most respectable old houses in London and other large
cities have only one street door and no area gate; and this is a great
advantage, for of all inventions for the demoralization of households,
the side or servant's door is the one which does its work most surely.
There is no oversight of it; and neither master nor mistress can tell
what is going on below-stairs, or at the back of the house, when the
shutters are closed and the family are at dinner, or in the
drawing-room in the evening.

The side door had its origin in a pride, or false shame, which could
not bear to see a vestige of the working of the machinery of the house,
and in that tendency to separate the ornamental from the necessary part
of the household economy which has worked so disastrously for us all,
making us, first, unwilling to take a practical share in the management
of our houses, so widening the class division between mistress and
servant; and secondly, has thrown us into such a state of dependence
upon our subordinates that the boldest of us dare not venture into the
kitchen except at stated hours; and then, having received the programme
of the proposed arrangements for the day from the cook, we are expected
to go away and be no further hindrance to the eleven o'clock luncheon,
which is one of the five solid meals daily required to sustain life in
the hardships of service. Most ladies know what it is to wince under
the sharp tongues of their cooks, who "don't like to have missuses come
messing about in their kitchens," and their sarcasms upon "ladies who
are not ladies," etc., etc., until many weak-minded victims retire
before the enemy, and, giving up the vain pretence of ordering the
dinner and examining the kitchen daily, send for the cook after
breakfast, and get the interview over as soon as may be. It requires a
very strong sense of duty to make one go where one is so palpably
unwelcome, where one's most innocent looks are construed into a mean
peeping and prying, and the least remonstrance is met by insolence.

I have, as a rule, been fortunate with my servants, and of late years I
have successfully employed foreigners, who are generally more tractable
than English servants.

I carried my point, when living in a villa near London, and locked the
side door, retaining the key. I found great advantage in so doing on
comparing notes with my neighbours, who told me their servants had
threatened to leave directly there was a question of closing the side
doors.

But this is only a recommendation where servants are kept. A
responsible supervision of young servants is quite consistent with
allowing them due liberty. This should always be granted them, as a
dull imprisonment is misery to the young, and then they would not
endeavour to take it in a clandestine manner, and surreptitious
dealings with dishonest characters outside would be avoided.

To our present argument it matters little whether there be a side door
or not, except that it affords greater facility to burglars; so we will
treat of the principal door as the only one, because this is most
frequently the case in town-houses where there is no area gate, and the
use of that does not enter into our plan of proceeding at all.

One of the first difficulties that presents itself to the lady wishing
to maintain a small household staff is the opening of the front door.
The question meets us on the threshold, who is to answer the door? Who
will be the slave of the ring?

A lady-help does not like to undertake this office, and to the mistress
it appears still more unsuitable. But let us analyze the subject.

There are four classes of people who knock at our door: the family,
tradespeople, visitors, and casuals. The first division of the
difficulty may be easily disposed of. The master and mistress, for
these titles must be strictly maintained, have each a latch key; the
rest of the family may habitually use a particular knock agreed upon
between them, and then the person who happens to be nearest to the door
will open it.

Schoolboys and girls return at stated hours, and one is prepared for
their appeal. For several years past my family has used four single
knocks, which is a sign sufficiently unlike other knocks to be
recognized immediately.

The postman's knock is well known, and in families where there is no
great eagerness to get the letters, they fall naturally into the
letter-box, which should be made deep, and the slit large enough to
admit the _Times_ newspaper easily.

In Italy it is usual to write the word _fuori_ on a card, and stick it
in the door when one is not at home; and in this case visiting-cards
would also be left in the letter-box. We might adopt this method, or
even the Temple fashion of saying when we are likely to be home again.

The tradesmen are the most difficult to arrange for, and here invention
must be called into play. Tradespeople first call for orders, and then
with supplies.

Suppose we had our doors fitted with a kind of turnstile door,
something like the birdcage gates which used to be at the Zoological
Gardens, only with the outside made of wood, closely fitting, so as to
admit no draught. This, by a push, would allow the goods to be
deposited within the door, on the table upon which the cage turns
round. The opening should be of a size to admit a leg of mutton easily.
The goods, once deposited, could not be removed from the outside, as
the door only works one way.

Through this opening the lady-housekeeper might give her own orders
without their interpretation by an underling, and without being exposed
to the public gaze, as she would be if the front door were fully
opened, while the leg-of-mutton aperture would be sufficient for both
parties to see to whom they were speaking. In the case of a single
door, instead of the very general folding doors, it would be necessary
to have the cage made to fold back, and the table to let down with
hinges, to allow of the door being opened back against the wall; the
table might be lowered after midday. This arrangement would also
dispose of most of the casuals--the beggars, pedlars, and others who
haunt our door-steps--to the entire prevention of hall robberies.

And now we come to the last and most considerable division of the
subject--our visitors; comprising relatives, friends, and strangers. If
we lived in Arcadia, or in the Colonies, we should most likely be so
glad to see our friends that we should joyfully run to welcome them. Or
if we were very great people indeed, we should not mind doing as Queen
Victoria does, going to receive them at the moment of their arrival.
But as we are middling people, and neither shepherdesses nor queens, we
dread being natural for fear of being thought poor.

For people are very much more afraid of being thought poor than of
being poor, seeing how often they let themselves be dragged into
poverty by idleness and extravagance. The best remedy I know for the
fancied difficulty of opening our door to our visitors, is to have no
friends but those whom we are glad to see, and to begin every new
acquaintance by putting it at once on a footing of actual fact, letting
people understand that we try to make the best of our means, and live
within them. Then, if they will not take us upon our own terms, we need
not regret that they do not wish for our friendship.

We shall find, in actual practice, that it makes very little difference
to their opinion of us, if when we are at home we have the courage to
tell them so ourselves; or if a dirty maid-servant, after an interval
of waiting, receives their cards in the corner of her apron because her
hands are black, and says she will go and see if "missis" is at home,
or even if a neat parlour-maid fulfils the same office, and ushers
visitors into a brown holland-encased room, leaving them to remark the
time the lady of the house takes arranging her dress and her smiles
previous to appearing.

In whatsoever way the ceremonial may be performed is of importance to
none but ourselves. The visitor forgets it immediately, only retaining
a general impression, cheery or dismal, as the case may seem; and if we
are nice people and our visitors nice people, according to our
respective ideas on that subject, we shall cultivate each other's
acquaintance all the same.

It is immensely hard work to make five hundred a year look like a
thousand. The effort to do so is seen through in an instant by a
keen-sighted observer, and then it is ten chances to one if you get
credit for what you really possess. It is never worth while to pinch
and pare our everyday life for the sake of a few occasions of display.

Let us now go on to consider the best fittings and furniture for the
entrance-hall.

Encaustic tiles make very good flooring for a hall, and are very easily
cleansed with a mop or a damp cloth wrapped round a broom. A good thick
door-mat is a great temptation to people to rub their boots well. This
is really better than one of those delightful indoor scrapers all set
round with brushes, which are seldom used after the first few weeks of
their introduction. Mine is as good as new, and as highly polished, and
I have had it for years. A couple of good door-mats are much more
useful.

It is necessary to have a stand with a large drip-dish in a corner of
the hall, to hang up cloaks and mackintoshes, and hat-pegs of course,
but particularly a good-sized cupboard for boots, shoes, and goloshes,
so that the family may change them in the hall on entrance. A carved
_bahut_, or Italian linen coffer, is very useful in a hall for children
to keep their school and garden hats and bonnets in, the lid serving
for a bench; but many halls, which are often merely narrow passages,
would be inconveniently crowded by one of these rather ponderous pieces
of furniture; besides which, they are costly.

A deep bowl of Oriental china is as nice as anything for a card-dish,
and the hall is a more appropriate place for it than the drawing-room.

Where it is thought necessary to warm the house, hot-water pipes laid
from the kitchen are as cheap as anything. If the pipes are heated by a
separate gas-stove in the hall, they will supply hot water to the
bed-rooms also; but it is not a healthy practice to heat the passages
of a house: it causes the cold to be so much more felt on going out.
Where the influence of the stove is felt in the bed-rooms it often
prevents sleep.

In many houses which are kept too close and warm the families are
subject to constant headache, and in others to a perpetual succession
of colds; according to their temperament requiring more oxygen, or
their susceptibility to the sudden change from the heated to the
outdoor air.

Unpolished oak is the most usual and the best material for hall
furniture; it is cleaned by rubbing with a little oil, which shows the
grain and enriches its colour.

One rule which in practice saves more dirt in the house than any other,
is that no member of the family be allowed to go upstairs in
walking-boots. I have carried out this law for some years, after having
long been troubled by my schoolboys rushing up and down stairs with
their dirty boots on; and the saving to my stair carpet is very
considerable. Boys and girls do not run up and down so often, if
compelled to exercise a little attention beforehand.

But little boot blacking or brushing need be done in the house.
Gentlemen can easily have their boots cleaned out of doors, and ladies,
by the use of goloshes, may reduce this work for themselves to a
minimum, many kinds of boots being much better cleaned when sponged
over lightly than when they are brushed or blacked. Every member of the
family may not unreasonably be expected to take care of his or her own
boots.

The door-step, or flight of steps, which is such an affliction to
householders and such a joy to servants, may be kept sufficiently clean
by being washed by the charwoman who comes one morning a week to do the
scrubbing and scouring; which would be too menial--in other words, too
public and too laborious--for any lady-help to endure.

Hearthstoning the step seems a very useless practice; the grey stone
itself is a nicer colour, and only requires a mop or a broom to keep it
free from dirt, according to the weather. Much white dust is brought
into the house by the daily use of hearthstone, and precious time is
wasted in the operation.

It may be well to understand, at the outset of our description of the
work of a house, what parts of it cannot usefully or practicably be
undertaken by women who have been gently nurtured, before discussing
the portions which their knowledge and skill are best calculated to
perform. For although we may by forethought reduce within a small
compass the toilsome part of the duties, there will always remain some
functions which it would uselessly tax a lady's valuable time and
strength to perform. For, after all, the office of the mistress is to
raise housekeeping to the level of the fine arts, "where the head, the
hand, and the heart work together."

Incidental mention has already been made of the charwoman; she may be
employed for the harder work in the following manner:--

The charwoman should not have her meals in the house, but she should be
paid by the piece for certain work done; say, door-step, 1_d._ or
2_d._, according to size and number of steps; kitchen floor, 4_d._;
passages, according to size and requirements. Many charwomen would
gladly undertake work on this plan, and many poor women or strong girls
would rejoice to do a morning's work and get home early to their family
with what would pay for their dinner.

It is impossible to lay down fixed prices for piece-work, as this must
necessarily vary with the size of houses and the habits of the owners.

The charwoman can shake the heavy door-mats, and sweep out the kitchen
flue, if the species of stove used require sweeping--and most of them
do. She may also break the large lumps of coal into knobs of the size
necessary for the patent ranges needing fuel of a certain size, and she
might place the week's supply of coal in the fuel-box.

It would be better in many cases to employ for this hard work a strong
boy with a Saturday half-holiday. He could do it all quite as well as a
woman, and much more easily; but as we find we shall be taxed for a
man-servant if we employ any arms but a woman's, we must make the best
use we can of the worse means, consoling ourselves with the idea that
the woman will use the money paid better than the boy might do.




BREAKFAST.

Lighting gas-fire--Difficulty of rousing servants--Family breakfast
--Cooking omelet--Hours of work and enjoyment--Duties of mothers and
householders--What is included in six hours' daily work--Clearing away
the breakfast--Bowl for washing the _vaisselles_--Ornamented tea-cloths
--Muslin cap worn while dusting--Use of feather-brush--Cleaning
windows--Advantages of gas-fire.


The gas-fire is the key-note of my system of domestic economy. The
thing most impossible for a lady to contemplate doing, unless compelled
thereto by duty, is to get up early, and before the shutters are open
or the household stirring, to lay and light a fire, or light one
already laid. The thought of going to a coal-cellar, shovel in hand, to
bring in a scuttle of coals on a winter's morning is enough to make the
bravest shudder. It is work only suited to those who have strength and
hard nurture.

But can the most delicate woman think it a hardship to light the
gas-stove, or tripod, in the dining-room, whereon stands an
enamel-lined kettle ready filled overnight, or else a coffee-pot
already full, and only waiting for the match to be struck to make it
hot?

This is less trouble than to rouse one's self at seven o'clock to ring
the bed-room bell, which often fails to summon a sleepy maid: and few
English servants are early risers. Those who keep foreign servants have
greatly the advantage in this respect.

Very many of us require our servants to rise and be downstairs before
seven, as most gentlemen have to be in the city, or at their offices or
chambers, by nine, and all schoolboys and girls at school. In the great
majority of families breakfast must be ready punctually at eight.

While the family is assembling and prayers are being read, the kettle
is boiling, and the tripod is soon ready for eggs to be boiled upon it,
and bacon or kidneys fried.

My experience of another plan for a very comfortable every-day
breakfast is, where a spirit lamp (methylated spirit, not petroleum)
stands on the breakfast-table at the mistress's right hand, and from a
plate containing eggs, butter, and some rashers of bacon, she cooks a
savoury omelet, and fries the rashers in a small china fryingpan over
the lamp, passing to each person the hot slices as they are done, and
serving the omelet fizzling from the pan to all.

This process of cooking only takes five minutes, and the food is ready
to be eaten as soon as the tea is made or the coffee poured out; and it
is a pretty and cheerful occupation while letters are being read and
talked of, or the _Saturday Review_ cut.

A few savoury herbs, such as parsley or chives, are a great addition to
the omelet; and it is easy to chop overnight the teaspoonful that is
sufficient for the purpose, and put it on the plate with the other
preparations. A few slices of cold potato are easily fried when the
bacon is taken out of the pan; the bacon fat fries them deliciously.
The china frying pans may be bought at many shops, particularly at No.
9, Oxford Street, London.

Toast is not easily managed; but with hot rolls from the baker's,
marmalade, honey, and potted meat or ham, on the table, a very
substantial breakfast may be had with little trouble, and no delay in
its preparation.

We will suppose the gentlemen of the family have left the house for the
business of the day, and the boys gone to school, and we will now,
before continuing our description of the house and its furniture, give
an outline sketch of the proceedings of the ladies during their
absence.

For England expects every woman to do her duty, as well as every man,
and to prove herself a help-meet for man before pretending to rivalry.
The division of our time given in the old lines seems to be a very
rational one--

    "Six hours to work,
    To soothing slumber seven,
    Ten to the world allot,
    And all to heaven."

This allows ample time for rest and enjoyment, and sets apart an hour
for daily service in the church for all who wish to attend it.

In Utopia, Sir Thomas More allots six hours a day for work to all men
and women, and no longer; as he holds it to be important that we should
have more time available for enjoying the living we work for, than for
working to sustain it.

We give ourselves so little enjoyment in our play, that a great man
once said, "Life would be very tolerable if it were not for its
pleasures." We have come to treat our play as if it were our work--and
no wonder, since we have made it so very troublesome--and having thrown
our appointed work upon the shoulders of other people, we now complain
how badly they do it.

We mothers have a certain work given us to do, not by man, but by our
Maker, whose servants we are. This is to take care of our children.
Instead of doing this, we leave them almost entirely in the hands of
strangers, and during great part of the day we know nothing of their
doings, nor of what they are learning or thinking.

What should we say to a nurse or a governess who neglected them as we
do, and how shall we answer for our lack of care?

We householders have laid upon us the care of our houses. Yet it has
come to be a recognized thing that we are to touch nothing in them with
our own hands--at the utmost, we are to give our orders; and the
wealthy among us do not even do that, but are waited upon with every
luxury, and then sent ready-dressed into society.

We are not our own, and we have little to do with the making of our
position in life. We must accept the _status quo_ and make the best of
it; so we may as well acquiesce cheerfully in our circumstances, doing
as much as we can, and see if regular occupation will not make our
hearts lighter, and help to bring back the days of Merry England again.

But we have no time for preaching now, and I would not willingly give a
sermon in any case. I only threw out that suggestion of six hours' work
for fear you might think I meant you to be busily employed all day, and
then you would drop the book in disgust. But go on a little longer, and
you will find that I am less hard than the Ladies' Art-Needlework
Society, which insists upon eight hours of close application, and far
less hard than the Cambridge Board of Examiners, which drives you on
night and day, leaving no time for household duties; much less for
dancing, or picking flowers in country lanes.

No; my six hours' work will include your music-practising, and your
attentive reading for purposes of study. For unless yours be the only
pair of feminine hands in the family, you will not find more than three
hours occupied with household work, and part of that time will comprise
a daily walk, a constitutional with an object, and the remaining part
will not be disagreeable; at least, I hope not, but it will be work and
not play.

After this explanation let us return to our subject. We will take it
for granted that there are at least two ladies at home. One, the
lady-help or eldest daughter, for example, will dust and set in order
the drawing-room, whilst the mistress of the house proceeds to clear
away the breakfast somewhat after the following manner.

When the coffee-pot was taken from the gas tripod to be placed on the
breakfast-table, the kettle was refilled from a tap fixed on one side
of the dining-room fire-place, and the water will be by this time hot
enough to wash the cups and plates in.

Immediately under the tap stands a large bowl of Delft, or other ware
sufficiently strong for daily use, and yet ornamental or picturesque
enough to remain always in the dining-room. Terra-cotta is a good
material for this purpose, as the colour is always decorative to a
room. One might have a bowl of very elegant design made at the Watcombe
terra-cotta works. Better still, in the case of its being required to
be movable, would be a wooden bowl of the Norwegian carved work
manufactured by peasant artists of Thelemarken, under the direction
of M. de Coninck, of Christiania. Some one of Minton's vases or
_jardinières_ would answer the purpose very well; but unless it had a
plug and a pipe for letting off the water, like many washstands have,
it would be heavy to lift with water in it. But a bowl with these
fittings, placed on a fixed stand near the fire-place, would be well
worth while taking some trouble to procure for the dining-room. It
would be quite as ornamental, and no more expensive, than the china
flower-pots on unsteady pedestals which are so universally popular;
indeed, it might balance one of these on the window-side of the
fire-place, if it were thought proper. A piece of oilcloth might be
spread under the pedestal, if it does not stand on the varnished floor.

From the sideboard-drawer will be taken a neatly folded tea-cloth,
ornamented most probably with open work at each end, or adorned with
colour in the style of the Russian household linen in the collection of
the Duchess of Edinburgh, and the lady will proceed to rinse and wipe
the breakfast cups and saucers, together with the teaspoons, milk-jug,
and the cleaner plates, and will then lay the plates that have grease
upon them to soak in the hot water, to which some additional hot water
has been added.

Before taking out the plates, the china which has been used at
breakfast should be neatly arranged on, or in, the sideboard. This
saves the trouble of carrying about trays of crockery, and the
consequent breakage. I will describe the china cabinet as I go more
particularly into the details of the dining-room.

The remaining plates may now be wiped, and the _etceteras_ replaced,
the cloth brushed, neatly folded, and laid in a drawer with the table
napkins, and the fryingpan cleansed by relighting the spirit-lamp for a
minute while some hot water bubbles in it to clean it; the towel itself
taken away to dry, and the tea-leaves, and a small basin of eggshells
and scraps carried into the kitchen; the raw eggshells to be used to
wash decanters and glass, and the tea-leaves reserved for dusting
purposes.

The windows are opened and the gas fire turned out, and this important
ceremonial of the day is at an end.

By this time the drawing-room will have been dusted by the second lady,
the week's duster being kept in a convenient drawer. The feather-brush
is wielded as a wand by the graceful mistress of the instrument, whom I
should recommend to wear a muslin cap to keep the dust from falling on
her hair.

These caps, when made of Swiss muslin and trimmed with a frill border
edged with Valenciennes lace, are most becoming. They are best and
prettiest when made in the shape of a large hair-net. A pretty bride
used to come down to breakfast at Interlaken wearing this kind of cap,
and other ladies at once adopted the style for wearing at their morning
work or sketching. This was some years ago, but a good shape is always
good.

To any one unused to the mysteries of dusting, it is surprising to find
how easily the ornaments of a drawing-room may be kept in order, and
how well the gilt frames of pictures preserved, by a light play of the
feather-brush every morning. The French use the _plumeau_ in nearly all
cases where we rub with a hard duster, and with great advantage,
especially in the case of gilding.

A man or woman hired once a month will keep the windows bright; they
are all the brighter if cleaned with newspaper dipped in cold
water--some mordant in the printer's ink has the property of rendering
them so--and they are the more easily wiped, having less fluff about
them than if cloths are used.

A light rub with a leather makes bright stove bars more brilliant, and
in summer the fire-place will give very little trouble; though for
ladies managing their own work, andirons and a wood fire will be found
easier to keep in order, as well as being more picturesque.

A gas fire, built with pumice and asbestos, lasts without needing a
touch for three years, and though less delightful than wood or coal, is
infinitely cleaner, and gives no trouble at all. A gas apparatus with
four jets can be laid in any ordinary fire-place, and fitted with
pumice and asbestos complete for seven and twenty shillings, perhaps
for less; but that is what I have paid. And when one considers the
saving of labour in carrying upstairs heavy scuttles of coal, besides
the original cost of the scuttles, with the ludicrous inappropriateness
of the ornamental varieties, the total abolition of fire-irons,
including that absurdity seen in many houses, the supplementary or
deputy poker, besides requiring no chimneysweep in the drawing-room at
all, it may be thought well worth while to have a gas fire laid at
first. The superior cleanliness and security against smoke are great
arguments for its general use, besides the ease with which it can be
lighted, or turned out when not wanted for use. Being in the
fire-place, the gas finds vent in the chimney, so there is no feeling
of closeness in the room. The disadvantage of a gas fire, in some
people's opinion, is that it may not be poked or touched; but this is
soon forgotten. Its appearance is like a clear fire of cinders, except
when the sun is shining, and then it burns with a greenish tint not at
all pretty.

Breakfast cleared away, and the drawing-room neatly arranged, the beds
have next to be made. This is done with little exertion, as modern beds
have spring mattresses, and French wool mattresses above these which
require no shaking; so that bed-making gives only a little exercise
with a minimum of fatigue. Two people can make a bed with great ease,
but as a rule I should advocate every person making his or her own bed.

I must not here go into the detail of setting the bed-rooms in order,
as this will come more properly into the description of the upper part
of the house. So I will only suggest that if one room be cleaned each
day, and the staircase on one day, the housework is not so heavy a task
as it appears.




THE KITCHEN.

Parisian markets--No refuse food brought into a house--Catering in
London--Cooking-stoves--Pretty kitchen--Underground kitchens
objectionable--Kitchen level with the street door--Larder and
store-room--The dresser--Kitchen in the Swiss style--Herbs in the
window--Hygienic value of aromatic plants--Polished sink--Earthenware
scrap-dish--Nothing but ashes in dust-bin--Soap-dish--Plate-rack--
Kitchen cloths--Few cleaning materials necessary--Hand work better
than machine work--Washing at home--Knife-cleaning--Fuel-box--No work
in the kitchen unfit for a lady to do.


Time works many changes; but will it ever bring into our English
markets the various and neatly arranged vegetables, the bouquets of
salad, pleasant to the eye as to the taste, the neat little joints and
divisions of meat, the temptingly prepared poultry and game, and the
many kinds of appetizing comestibles, which are to be found in the
markets of Paris? There a housekeeper may amuse herself by varying her
dinners for every day, having an embarrassment of choice between
countless delicacies. There the fillet of beef (the undercut of the
sirloin) is already larded for the roast; the pigeons are boned and
prepared for the _compôte_; the veal is cut in shape and beaten for the
cutlets; the pigs'-feet are boned, stuffed, and truffled; slices of
galantine are ready to be laid on a dish for luncheon; crayfish woo the
_mayonnaise_; parsley and butter are waiting to be poured over potatoes
_à la maître-d'hôtel_. There the spinach may be bought ready boiled and
finely chopped, only needing to be warmed with its poached eggs; the
sorrel is already picked over and cooked; the carrots are cleanly
grown, and evenly selected, and sold with just the quantity of
feathered green tops useful for a garnish. In fact, all is so contrived
that the least possible refuse matter shall be brought into any house,
so saving the labour that this entails.

Nor does this trimming and spoke-shaving add to the price of the
articles, as the surplus vegetable remains go into the ground at once,
but little of what is uneatable being taken to the market at all; thus
saving the cost of carriage, and paying for the little time expended in
its removal; while in the case of meat, the purchaser finds it more
profitable to cook only such parts as are entirely eatable, without
letting time and fire be consumed in preparing what is always wasted.

This is not a cookery-book, though when I think of how much we have to
learn before we can make good use of our fine provisions, I feel
tempted to branch off on this line; but the lady amateur will learn
more by giving careful attention at the cooking-school than by reading
many books.

In London we can buy peas ready shelled, fowls ready trussed, fish
prepared for the pot or pan, and sometimes our beans ready slit; but
carrots must be scraped, greens washed, and turnips peeled, and apples
also, though potatoes need not; tongues and hams may be bought boiled,
and cakes ready baked. Still, with us much more food has to be prepared
at home than in France, though we have this convenience--that the
provisions are brought by the tradesmen to our doors, which is seldom
the practice there.

For general cooking, the gas tripod like that used at breakfast will
not serve our turn, except on cold-collation days in the heat of
summer, when cold lamb or salmon, salads and fruit, are more grateful
than anything else.

Many people dislike to have their cooking done by gas, and it is
objectionable for roasting or broiling; still, there are such numerous
inventions in cooking-stoves, each simpler, cleaner, and more perfect
than the rest, that only the embarrassment of selection can cause
hesitation in making a choice.

Near a nice bright stove, placed in a recess glittering with Dutch
tiles or Minton's artistic _plaques_, surrounded by burnished pans
and pots of well-lined copper or brass and neat enamelled saucepans,
the genius of the hearth presides over the mysteries of Hestia.

The window, made with diamond panes mingled with a few lozenges of
bright colour, is mostly open in summer, and wreathed with climbing
plants--as vines, and ornamental gourds, with their curious black or
scarlet fruit, the rich foliage intercepting the sunshine--or closed if
it be winter, and draped in pleasant muslin. I would take great pains
to make my kitchen the most picturesque and cheerful room in the house,
as it is one of the most important.

On no account would I use the great black beetle-trap cellar downstairs
and underground, which strikes with dismay the greater number of young
girls who have rushed from school into marriage, and who instantly
become the prey of the tyrant imprisoned in that dungeon, which is too
often also a den of iniquity.

No; if obliged to have a house with one of these dismal caverns, I
would invent some useful purpose for it; but I would not willingly
select such a dwelling. These underground kitchens must eventually die
out, and our children will wonder why we used such airless, lightless
places.

In a house arranged on my plan we aim upwards, not downwards. We might,
perhaps, on wet days, let the children go to these basement rooms to
skip or romp, as there they could not shake down the ceiling beneath
them, as sometimes happens in upstairs play-rooms; only the rooms must
be kept carefully whitewashed, and, as far as possible, well aired.

Or the old kitchen might be fitted up with racks for guns and
fishing-rods, and used as a smoking-room, when cosily papered, and
carpeted with matting; and the back kitchen converted into a
carpenter's shop with lathe and tool-chest.

But our kitchen, the pride of our house, will be level with the
dining-room and front door. It is a foolish practice to have all
vegetables, meat, coal, etc., taken downstairs for the purpose of
bringing them all up again.

When it is impossible to spare two rooms on the ground floor for
household use, let both kitchen and dining-room be upstairs, while the
drawing-room might be on the ground floor. This would give no more work
than does our present custom. But where it is possible, it is better,
for obvious reasons, that the kitchen should be on a level with the
street door.

When the room used as kitchen is large and has two windows, one side of
it may be partitioned off for a larder, or store closet; or if there is
a small third room near, it may be used for these purposes. But much
depends upon the aspect of the room and its means of ventilation. A
town larder need not be large, as the butcher, fishmonger, etc., can
keep the provisions far better than we can do in the best of larders. A
pantry and scullery will be quite unnecessary in a house arranged in
this way. Wine will be kept in the usual wine-cellar, but beer, in
bottles or in a small cask, may be kept in the cupboard under the
stairs which is so universal in town houses.

The kitchen floor should not be carpeted; but one or two undyed
sheepskins make comfortable mats, and are easily cleaned.

The kitchen dresser may be made of the usual shape, though the cornice
seems superfluous, as it is too high for anything but dust to rest upon
it.

Where it is thought better to do so, the old kitchen dresser may be
brought bodily upstairs. If it is varnished and its back painted red,
and the edges of its shelves very dark brown, with bright brass hooks
in them, it may have bright brass handles put on its drawers, and it
will do very well; and white or blue-and-white ware will look extremely
well upon it.

A kitchen may be very prettily fitted up in the Swiss style, with
unpainted deal employed decoratively whenever there is a fit occasion
for it. The back of the dresser may be made of narrow boards, each lath
cut out uniformly in a pattern at the top, forming a band of ornament.
The shelves will look very nice with a border of fretwork, in sycamore,
placed either above or below their edges. They are more easily cleaned
if the ornamental border is fastened on like barge-boarding, but this
plan is not so well adapted for hooks.

Mottoes in old English character, which is similar to the German Gothic
type used in Switzerland, form an appropriate decoration to the cornice
of the room.

The tables and chairs must be of unpainted wood, plain, but of good
form. All hooks and bars, or whatever cannot conveniently be made of
wood, should be of wrought iron. This gives a good opportunity for
having window-bars and fastenings, or even a balcony, made in
ornamental iron work. The window-curtains will be of Swiss muslin.

Oval wooden pails, with a board on one side left tall and cut out for a
handle, made in various sizes for water, milk, etc., are as useful as
they are suitable to the style adopted; and baskets may be made like
those carried by the Swiss mountaineers at their backs. A cuckoo clock
and a few hooks of chamois horn carry out the effect. Characteristic
ornaments, such as paintings of Swiss scenery, and flowers in wooden
frames, wood carvings on brackets, wooden bears as matchboxes, wooden
screw nutcrackers, should be collected during visits to Switzerland;
and a Swiss costume will be found as practically useful as any dress
the young cook can wear, and will add a great charm and liveliness to
the scene.

But be the style adopted what it may, and it is well to exercise
individual tastes, it need not be made expensive, or not more so than
an ugly kitchen. Thought and care should combine to make it cheerful
and attractive, in order that the real work to be done in it may not
have a depressing influence: that the lady, or her assistant, may not
pine for the greater excitement of the Row or the rink. The kitchen
window should be well furnished with scented plants; and in case of
having no garden, pots of parsley, mint, and thyme may be grown
successfully on a balcony. Every house might possess its sweet basil
plant, and every Isabella might rear it in as elegant a pot as that in
Holman Hunt's picture. Plentiful use should be made of it in cookery;
it is one of the best of herbs. Indeed, we too much neglect all these
aromatic plants, the hygienic value of their fragrance alone being very
great. Some girls might save the small fortune they now spend in
opopanax and patchouly, by cultivating lavender and thyme for their
wardrobes; while balm and bergamot are sweet enough to make the kitchen
smell like Araby the Blest.

China ginger-jars will be found good for preserving dried herbs for
winter use.

The sink is a very important part of the kitchen furniture. This, in
our model kitchen, should be a shallow bath of Marezzo marble, which is
a strong, durable composition, finely coloured. We should select it of
a colour harmonizing with the general style of the kitchen. The sink
must rest upon two columns, or short shafts, of the Marezzo marble,
hollowed down the centre, to allow of the water running freely away at
both ends of the sink, each tube being stopped by a bell-trap. It must
stand on one side of the kitchen fire-place, so that a pipe and tap may
readily communicate with the self-supplying boiler. There must also be
the usual pipe to conduct cold water from the cistern.

The best possible sink would be of real marble, highly polished; but
the cost of this would preclude its use in our economical household.
Enamelled slate would be cheaper and very good, and it would retain its
polish better than the Marezzo marble, or japanned metal might answer
the purpose pretty well. But doubtless a demand for such articles would
cause Messrs. Minton's factory to produce a sink in strong glazed
earthenware which should be finely coloured as well as elegant in form,
making, indeed, an object as beautiful as a Roman porphyry bath. Many
of the public washing fountains in Italy, or the south of France, would
serve as models for this purpose. One of the most important points to
be attended to is that it should be highly polished, as grease would be
more easily removed from it, and it would be cleaner.

Beneath the sink is the pot for scraps and refuse, of which a small
quantity is inevitable, unless there is a garden, or poultry are kept;
in which cases all rubbish may be turned to account, the only exception
being fish-bones and scraps, which, under all circumstances, must be
burned.

The refuse dish should be of earthenware to match the sink, or of
terra-cotta, glazed inside. It must be made in two compartments, one
for usable scraps and one for waste. Each division should have a cover
with a small air-hole in it, both covers made sufficiently heavy not to
be upset or opened by the cat; and there must be a handle to lift it
out once a week, or oftener, when its contents are disposed of, either
as gift, or to some person calling for it regularly. In all economical
families the dripping is consumed either for frying, or else clarified
for cakes, etc. Cinders, of course, are to be sifted in the covered
cinder-sieve, and the ashes only allowed in the dust-bin. By care on
this point, seven-tenths of all fevers might be prevented.

By the side of the sink should stand a neat towel-horse for drying the
damp cloths; and a pretty dish made in two divisions, with a strainer
for soap and soda, should be hung in a convenient place. This dish
would be best made in earthenware, but it might be of carved wood in a
kitchen fitted up in the Swiss style.

A plate-rack must be above the sink, and here is great scope for
tasteful decoration without interfering with its lightness or strength.
A rack like those in general use would, however, be perfectly
inoffensive, and so would our ordinary buckets and dish-tubs; but
souvenirs of travel, such as the quaint wooden pails seen at Antwerp,
or the brass fryingpan-shaped candlesticks at Ghent, should be eagerly
sought, as they add much to the picturesqueness and piquant liveliness
which are so desirable.

A round towel, on a roller with nicely carved brackets, is
indispensable. This should be of finer holland than it is generally
made of, being for ladies' use; or it might preferably be of soft
Turkish towelling, with coloured stripes and a fringed end, and so be
pleasanter to the eye and touch than the ordinary jack-towel.

The dresser-drawers must have their piles of kitchen cloths neatly
folded, and separated for their different services. These should be
the pride of the young housewife's heart, all of them having their
ends tastefully ornamented, either ravelled out or knotted into fringe
for the commonest, or open worked, or edged with Greek lace and
_guipure-d'art_, according to their quality; the dusters only being
plain, and these of two sorts, one stout for furniture, and the other
kind of soft muslin for ornaments. Housemaid's gloves, wash-leather,
and any favourite cleaning materials, should be kept in a drawer by
themselves; but in my experience I have found very few of these things
necessary. As is the case with all the arts, the more complete the
paraphernalia, the less is the work done. It takes so long to set in
order one's apparatus, and to play with it a little, that as soon as
something is begun to be done, it is time to put all away again. How
often we see this with amateur painters; they set out too heavily
equipped.

The black-lead and brush, and broken saucer full of something pulpy,
the powder that is always falling out of its packet or bit of
newspaper, and the other odds and ends which crowd our house-maids'
dirty buckets, and the scrubbing brushes and hearthstone which encumber
our sinks, are only barbarisms trying to conceal the slovenliness they
pretend to correct. A house regularly and neatly attended to needs few
or none of these things, while sandpaper, rotten-stone, and whiting may
be almost entirely dispensed with. The homely old proverb should be
remembered, when tempted by advertisements of these things,
"Elbow-grease is the best furniture polish."

Mincing-machines, apple-paring-machines, and toys of this kind, are all
very well when ladies use them themselves; but they represent so much
idleness, waste, and destruction in the hands of careless cooks, who
like to sit over their letter writing, or their weekly paper, while the
kitchen-maid does the work. And when a fragile machine breaks or gets
out of order under her heavy hand, she only "drats the nasty thing" and
throws away the broken part, pushing the rest aside to become a portion
of the dreadful accumulation of lumber to be seen in every house.

My own practice as a wood-carver teaches me to prefer using that
perfect tool, the hand, in its ever adaptable way, to using it
servilely to grind out sausages. By the time one has prepared the meat
to feed the machine, set it in working order, and taken it to pieces
again to clean it, one might as soon have used a sharp knife, and the
meat would have tasted better than it does when its juice is squeezed
out and its fibre torn to rags, so that the insipid _rissoles_ made
from it need half a bottle of Harvey's sauce to make them eatable. It
may be a matter of taste, but the difference seems to me as great as
between music played on a piano and noise ground out of a barrel-organ.

Washing-machines, I have found to my cost, are a failure also, at least
in hired hands. I bought one of the best, but as I had also a
washing-tray, the machine, warranted to do everything, was neglected,
and its lid employed as a table; as we too often see with our pianos,
telling thereby a tale of forgetfulness. The mangling part of the
machine, which was sometimes used by semi-compulsion, always had its
screw left turned on at full pressure, so that the spring would have
been powerless in a week, had I not loosened it myself. Washing at home
had better not be attempted in the case of ladies doing their own work.
We want to lighten the labour of the house; since, if we endeavour to
do too much, we shall either become household drudges, or else decline
the work altogether.

But supposing a family has time and opportunity to do the laundry work
at home, a tablespoonful of liquid ammonia and a dessertspoonful of
turpentine used in the washing water, where a quarter of a pound of
soap has been finely sliced, will be found to remove dirt from the
clothes without rubbing, saving labour, much soap, and the wear and
tear of the things.

In the case of large families, besides the greater economy of washing
at home, which is, however, doubtful when extra labour is hired, the
immunity from infectious diseases being brought home in the linen is a
powerful motive for undertaking the work, and doubly so where there is
a garden, as it is so much better for our health to wear linen dried in
the fresh air, rather than in the small courts of the neighbourhood
where our laundresses usually dwell, or in the close passages of their
houses.

Kent's patent knife-cleaner is as much used, and as useful, as any of
these domestic machines, though I prefer the leather-covered board.
Pyro-silver knives seem to save labour, as they are cleaned like any
spoon; wiped first, as all greasy knives should be, with paper, then
washed in warm water and wiped with a cloth. My own pyro-silver knives
keep very well and remain bright, but as they have valuable handles of
elaborate Burmese ivory-carving they are carefully used. I have heard
people say that the pyro-silver does not wear well, being easily
scratched and otherwise injured.

Balancing the sink on one side of the stove is the fuel-box, containing
a quarter of ton of coal. This, in most of the new stoves, will last
several weeks, and it may be bought in this small quantity at a time,
or replenished from the usual coal-cellar. This consideration would be
determined by the season, by whether the other stoves in the house burn
gas or coal, and by the number of rooms requiring daily fires.

The fuel-box should have a lid, forming a table for any temporary uses,
or any of the less cleanly sorts of work--I will not say dirtier work,
because in this system there should be no dirty work, nothing but what
a lady may do without loss of dignity, and without injury to hands
which in the afternoon will handle delicate needlework, and in the
evening recreate themselves over the piano.

And this leads us to speak of the systematic employment of lady-helps,
in such cases as they may be a real comfort and assistance in a family,
and not where they are expected to be perfect servants, who for small
wages will relieve idle ladies from the difficulty of first obtaining
and then enduring a few ignorant domestics.




THE LADY-HELP.

True position of a lady-help--Division of work in a family--The mother
the best teacher--Marketing--Young lady-helps--Luncheon--Early dinners
for children--Recreation--Preparing the late dinner--Evening tea--The
lady-help a gentlewoman--Her assistance at breakfast--Her spare time
--Tact.


I use this title, not because I think it is the best, but because it is
already in general use; though, as yet, very few people have any clear
idea of what the true position of a lady-help should be. Some persons
suppose they must treat her as a visitor, in which case she would be
worse than useless, and such a situation could not possibly be
permanent. Others think she must be employed precisely like an upper
servant, and only look upon her as a means of escape from the penalties
of their own position.

In houses where there are grown-up daughters it is not necessary, nor
even advisable, to employ any labour outside of the family beyond that
of the charwoman, as previously described.

The work may be so divided as to press too heavily on none, always
bearing in mind, however, that, as "Life is real, life is earnest,"
there is real work to be done in every household, the aim being to
lighten it by contrivance, and by utilizing modern inventions; in fact,
making of science and social economy two valuable servants, instead of
exalting them to be our masters, as we have all been doing lately. For,
notwithstanding all our brilliant inventions, we have so multiplied our
wants that life is neither easier nor cheaper than it was in the days
when we knitted our own stockings, spun our own flax, and used strong
handloom sheetings, and woollen cloths which were not made of shoddy.

Let us take as a typical family a mother and three daughters, two of
them grown up and one still a child--a by no means uncommon instance.
The men and boys may be many or few, it makes little difference to our
example.

Probably the mother is not so strong as the grown-up daughters. She
might make choice of the needlework department, or the teaching,
supposing her own education to have been good; in which case she would
add the benefit of her experience to every lesson given, rendering it
far more valuable than instruction from a young teacher; as in all
branches of study she would distinguish what is good and lasting from
what is merely ephemeral, and we should have fewer flimsy pieces of
music learnt to the exclusion of great masters, and fewer meretricious
drawings on tinted paper, as we grow out of our admiration for these
things at an early period, and home education would have a more solid
groundwork. Young teachers are too apt to think they know everything,
and only aim at their own standard of education, finished as they
believe it to be.

Perhaps the mother might prefer to reserve a general oversight, with
only such lighter work as the breakfast-table as already described. The
daughters could share the remaining work in the following manner.

While the breakfast is being cleared away, one daughter, accompanied by
her youngest sister, will arrange the bed-rooms, and dust the
drawing-room and such parts of the dining-room as have not been
included in the work of setting in order after breakfast. The little
girl would rejoice in helping in this way--all children do; and when
they have no real work of this kind, they imitate it with dolls'
houses. Housekeeping is one of a girl's natural instincts; it is only
quenched by accomplishments being put in its stead.

While the manager of the needlework sees what requires her attention in
that department, and plans it for unoccupied hours--keeping, perhaps,
some fancy portion of it for pleasant work in the evening, while music
or reading is going on--the daughter who is housekeeper for the week
attends to the culinary arrangements, and considers what marketing will
be required. She will, either alone or accompanied by one of her
sisters, proceed to give her orders at the various shops, or go to the
market and make her own selection. She will bring home some of the
purchases herself--any parcel, for instance, that is no heavier than a
little dog--but mostly the things will be sent to the house.

Co-operative stores may or may not be an advantage to their
customers--it is a disputed point; but two good things they have done
for us: first, making us pay ready money for what we buy; secondly,
doing away with the ridiculous fear we formerly had of being seen
carrying a parcel.

This expedition will have given our young heroine the necessary morning
air and exercise, and it need not be so long as to prevent her
enjoyment of a more ornamental walk in the afternoon--visits, or a
cruise in the rink.

In the case of there being only one grown-up daughter, a young
lady-help may be thought an agreeable addition to the family. She would
be a pleasant companion to the daughter, and they might share the work
in the same manner as two sisters would do. If she were more
accomplished, or better read, than the daughter of the house, this
would be a source of improvement to the latter; or if the superiority
were on the other side, the benefit resulting to the companion would be
such as to make her endeavour, by increased usefulness, to show her
sense of the advantages whereby she would be enabled to add to her
acquirements.

Much ease in daily life is obtained by dining early; but as this is
seldom possible where fathers and husbands are out all day at their
employments, the necessarily late dinner involves a sacrifice of our
time and pleasure, which we must try to render as small a hardship as
may be, and take as a duty what is such in reality.

Luncheon for ladies is easily provided where there are no ravenous
schoolboys and girls to cater for, because, as they will dine late, the
luncheon need not be a hot spread meal. A tray with slices of cold
meat, bread, butter, cheese, or perhaps some cold potatoes fried, or
any easily warmed little dish remaining from yesterday's dinner, will
make an ample luncheon, with a glass of beer or some claret. But if
there are schoolboys and girls who come home to an early dinner, it is
indispensable that it should be a real dinner, and no make-believe. The
experience of schools and large families shows us that the cheapest and
most wholesome fare for children is a joint of meat, with potatoes and
another vegetable, a daily pudding, varied according to circumstances,
bread, and beer. No adjuncts; neither pickles nor condiments, cheese
nor dessert. All these _etceteras_ are superfluous and unwholesome,
and entail extra plates and additional trouble to everybody.

The joints of meat, with potatoes and Yorkshire pudding, are as well
cooked at the baker's as at home, and with much saving of heavy work.

The following is a good working-plan for a large family: a joint of
meat roasted the first day, the next day cold, which is better for the
children than having the joint cut in two and both parts eaten
hot--cold meat is very good for them. The remainder may be stewed, or
otherwise warmed up on the third day; and so forth, varied with boiled
meat occasionally and fish once a week--on Friday in preference, as
there is a better choice of it on that day, it being purveyed for the
Roman Catholics and others who eat it on principle. Monday is the worst
day for fish.

The daily pudding should be simple, without sauce, and with very little
spice. Spices become valuable medicines when not habitually taken with
the food.

It is a mistake to feed children entirely on meat and potatoes; this
diet does not afford sufficient variety. Fruit and milk puddings are
very wholesome and nourishing for children, and so is simple pastry,
when made without baking powder, the frequent use of which is very
lowering, as is the case with all alkalies.

Luncheon over, the hours from two till half-past four are free for
everybody. Now is the time for music-practice, walks, visits, and
general recreation.

Visitors drop in about this time, and may be encouraged to stay by the
sight of the afternoon tea-table standing ready arranged in a corner of
the drawing-room. The descent for five minutes of one of the ladies
will be sufficient time to make the tea and produce a plate of
biscuits, or the cake-basket. The gas may be lighted under the kettle
at the time the door is opened to visitors.

At half-past four the fire must be made up in the kitchen, and all
things put in readiness to prepare the late dinner. This, in the
interest of the health of all, and especially of those who return home
tired and hungry, should not be later than six o'clock, where it is
possible.

The dinner and dessert occupy little more than an hour, and half an
hour is sufficient to clear all away, and set the things ready for the
next morning's breakfast. The cloth may be left spread on the table,
only brushed and neatly laid.

We have then a pleasant social evening left us; two hours and a half
before ten o'clock, which may or may not be broken by an evening cup of
tea, according to taste.

Luxurious people, whose days hang heavily on their hands, are the
fortune of the doctors. Among them we may include servants in large
houses, who are, perhaps, more self-indulgent than any. And it is the
habitual five meals a day required to fill up time in an opulent house,
that contribute most to fill the pockets of the physician.

It is pleasant, certainly, for an occasional change, to stay in a house
where at nine o'clock the butler and two footmen stalk in with the
tea-tray and its appurtenances; but the main, though unacknowledged,
cause of the ceremonial is, that it may be seen that the men-servants
are at home in the evening, and not at the public-house.

As a daily habit, however, the continual breaking up of time caused by
the ever-recurring meals is very tiresome to those whose occupations
are so unnecessarily hindered.

It has been shown that the daily housework for a small family is not
too arduous to be undertaken by the members of that family, in any case
where the grown-up ladies in the house are two or more. But in the
circumstance of a young wife and mother, it were better that she should
not attempt to cope with the greater part of the household work,
especially if she be alone in the house all day, or with young children
only. The sense of solitude is too depressing, and all unshared labour
is much heavier.

In case of her having no sister, or female friend or relation, to whom
she might be glad to offer a home, she should seek a cheerful
lady-help, who would be pleased to feel she is putting her time to
profit. And if strong, healthy, and a skilful manager, the lady-help
will find how far more interesting this varied work may be made, than
the drudgery of sitting in a dreary school-room as governess to a tribe
of tiresome children, where her only recreation is the monotonous daily
walk; or the more independent, but far more laborious, occupation of a
fine-art needleworker, to whom eight hours' continuous daily toil are
obligatory.

As far as I can see and judge by letters written to the _Queen_ and
other papers, and the jokes in _Punch_, the difficulty, almost
impossibility, of getting gentlewomen as helps is the drawback to
their being put forward as a solution of the domestic difficulty. The
engagement of half-educated or pretentious daughters of small
tradespeople is by no means desirable, either for themselves or for us.
We do not wish them to be our companions, yet they must be treated with
a greater degree of familiarity than ordinary servants; and if they are
allowed to be on a nominal footing of equality, it can only tend to
lower the tone of the whole household. But the lady-help, in an
establishment suited to the feelings of such an one, may easily be a
gentlewoman by birth and education, and not a lady in name merely.

As regards the invasion of domestic privacy, which has ever been found
such a disadvantage where a companion, or a governess, is always the
sharer of our meals and conversation, it is by no means necessary,
hardly even possible, that this should be the case with a lady-help;
except at breakfast, when it is surely no hardship, but the
contrary--indeed, it must be a pleasure--to have at our children's most
important meal the assistance of a lady whose care of their wants
prevents our own breakfast being uncomfortably hurried.

For breakfast is unlike dinner-time in this, that as husband and wives
have already had plenty of time for all they wish to say to each other,
the presence of a third person is not inconvenient, while at their
reunion about dinner-time, when each has the day's adventures to relate
and comment upon, a stranger is sometimes in the way.

Indeed, it is one of the greatest difficulties in the lady-help system,
that of necessity she cannot sit at table while serving the dinner.

The greater number of ladies will be as well pleased to have their
spare time for their own pursuits, as to be obliged to sit in the
drawing-room all the evening, trying to seem amused with doing nothing.
A lady offering herself for work of this kind will generally be of an
energetic temperament, and able to employ her leisure profitably in
reading, drawing, or needlework, or perhaps she may have her own piano
in her room.

It would frequently conduce to the comfort of all parties if she had an
invitation, which she might accept or refuse, to join the drawing-room
circle; and this should be given on occasions when it is likely to be
agreeable to her, at such times as her necessary duties will cause no
awkwardness to herself, the mistress, or the guests. Exercise of tact
will be frequently called for, no doubt, in this avowedly the weak part
of the scheme; but with wit, invention, and a hearty endeavour to make
a subordinate position as little painful as possible, many difficulties
will be tided over, and when once the novelty of the method is worn
off, many little complications, by being less thought of, will be less
felt.

Where a governess is kept as well as a lady-help, the two ladies could
enjoy life together quite independently of the general company; and it
might be found perfectly compatible with their avocations to give them
permission to invite their personal friends to spend their evenings
occasionally with them.

In the case of the daughters of the house taking its duties upon
themselves (and no one can consider it an ungraceful service to wait
upon a father), the way would be smoothed by common endeavour of all
the members of the family, and much kindly courtesy would be aroused,
and earnest effort to give the least possible trouble; all of which
should be done in the case of the lady-help.

When we go more deeply into the detail of the dinner, which is the
_pièce de résistance_ of the day's programme, we will endeavour to
show how, by careful fitting and steady guidance, the wheels of the
domestic machine may run smoothly and noiselessly in their grooves,
especially if the oil of good humour be plentifully supplied. And
several suggestions will be offered, which, however, must be looked on
merely as suggestions, and not as essential parts of the system; for in
every household there will be modifications, according to the infinite
variety of tempers, tastes, and habits of the family.




THE DINING-ROOM.

Carpets and curtains--Picture hanging and frames--Distemper colouring
for cornices--Oval dining-table--Sideboard for breakfast service--
Beauty of English porcelain--A London dining-room--Giulio Romano's
banquet--Growing plants--The large sideboard--Dinner-service--Styles of
dinner--Food in due season--Gracefulness of flowers and fruits--Fresh
fruit better than preserves--Communication between kitchen and dining-room
--Remarks on plate--Table decorations.


Having given a sketch of the kitchen, I must now fill up that of the
dining-room, which we left after the breakfast was cleared away.

As the gas-tripod, the spirit-lamp, and the large bowl for washing the
china and other crockery have been already described, we may proceed to
consider what more immediately relates to the dinner-table; since the
rest of the furniture need not materially differ from what is at
present in use.

In selecting a carpet for the dining-room, let us remember that a
Brussels carpet is more easily brushed and kept clean, than are Turkey
or Indian carpets.

If it be made with a border, and the floor stained and varnished all
round at a width of from one to two feet from the wainscot, beside
being cheaper to begin with than a fitted carpet, it is more artistic
in appearance, and more readily taken up periodically to be beaten;
while a long brush easily dusts the varnished margin, and a damp cloth
tied over a harder broom will wash it in case of necessity. Bordered
square carpets are the more durable, as they are able to be turned
round as one part becomes unduly worn.

The best kind of curtains for a dining-room are of some rich-looking
woollen stuff, thick enough not to require lining. Rep is very
serviceable, but there are many more curious foreign fabrics which may
sometimes be met with at no very great cost.

Curtains ought to run easily on a pole, either of wood or metal. If of
metal, it should not be very large, as the size of a hollow rod does
not add to its strength. Curtain rings can be sewn on at home, and so
can any cord that may be thought desirable at the edge, though this
does not often improve curtains from an artistic point of view. There
is no need of the upholsterer's intervention, which mostly doubles the
price of the curtains.

The height from the floor to the top of the window should be measured,
and the requisite number of yards of material bought, allowing a margin
for curves in the folds of the drapery. The rods should be sufficiently
long to allow the curtains to hang entirely upon the wall, not
overhanging the window in the least. This preserves the drapery, and
keeps it from fading, while it does not exclude the light.

The curtains should be ample enough to cover the window completely when
the shutters are shut, without leaving a streak of opening. They should
likewise extend to the ends of the pole, so as comfortably to keep out
the draught.

If muslin curtains are used, they may conveniently be tacked inside the
woollen ones about half-way; this will keep the latter from some dust.
A few additional rings can be slipped on the pole, to which the
remaining central parts of the muslin will be gathered.

Curtains should touch the floor, or nearly so, but they need never be
allowed to lie in heaps on the ground, as was formerly the fashion; and
the voluminous folds sustained by brackets have been advantageously
exchanged for a simple band to hold back the curtain.

Our mothers and grandmothers were certainly victims to their
upholstery; we have improved in this respect. It does not take many
minutes to unhook our curtains, shake them free from dust, and hang
them up again; we have no complicated pulleys to get out of order
perpetually, nor ponderous cornices with heavy valances, and wonderful
gimp and fringe. Those were fine times for the upholsterers!

Do not hang your dining-room pictures very high; few of us tower above
six feet, and it is easier for those who do so to stoop, than for the
rest of us to stand on tip-toe; we must consider the convenience of the
majority.

Money is well expended on picture-frames, as when they are handsome and
chosen with taste, they enhance our enjoyment of the pictures. But a
costly frame is not always a good one, and when gilt composition runs
riot in ferns and fantastic flames, as we frequently see it do around
mirrors, its effect is barbaric, rather than elegant.

Broad flats in gilt plaster are less excellent than gold laid on the
wood itself.

For prints, where economy has to be much considered, few frames are
better than those of flat oak with a bevelled edge, and on the flat a
slight design of graceful lines made with the parting-tool, and only
the lines gilt.

Pictures, if small and numerous, should not be dotted about the walls,
but grouped. One sometimes see walls as spotted as a currant-dumpling.
A band of wood, called a grazing line, behind the chair-backs protects
the wall, and is an aid to picture hanging, by giving a line from which
we may measure their bases.

If there are many large pictures, they should be hung from a rod placed
near the ceiling, or a foot lower, if an ornamental band of paper is
carried round the top of the room below the cornice. If the cornice is
not already "picked out," as the decorators term it, in colour--that
is, delicately tinted in distemper--it should be done, as it is a great
improvement.

It is not difficult to do this for one's self. The necessary materials
are a pennyworth of whitening, a pennyworth of size, and of the
required tints a pennyworth. Break up some whitening into saucers, mix
it with water until it is of the consistence of thick cream, add a
tablespoonful of melted size to each saucer, shake in about a
teaspoonful of powdered colour to each, and apply with a badger or
hog-hair paintbrush.

Strong colours become pale tints when mixed with the whitening, and the
mixture dries paler than it is applied. To paint the ground on which
the plaster design is embossed gives a cameo effect and is elegant, but
sometimes it is better to colour the raised ornaments. Taste must be
the guide here. This quantity of material is sufficient to tint every
cornice in the house. Splashes of the colour are easily wiped off while
the mixture is wet.

Where the family is small, an oval table, like we generally see in
France, is the most convenient form; as the master and mistress sit
facing each other at the narrowest part of the oval, where they can
communicate freely with each other, and more easily dispense the
general hospitality. A table of this shape is lengthened by leaves
inserted in the central division; when quite closed it is a round
table.

A dumb-waiter placed at the right hand of the mistress enables much
personal waiting to be dispensed with.

If the dining-room be large, it is desirable to have two sideboards,
one larger than the other. The breakfast things should adorn (for that
is what they really ought to do) the smaller sideboard.

With all the beauty and comparative cheapness of our Worcester and
other pottery, we ought, in every family, to possess such a collection
of beautiful objects for daily use as should for ever prevent our
sighing after the palmy days of Greek art. I was at Sèvres not long
ago, and while going over the porcelain factory there, I mentioned that
I had been over that at Worcester. "Ah, then, madame," said the
official, "we can show you no more; you have indeed seen all."

And had we no careless and ever-changing servants to shatter our
elegant treasures, we might have in daily use objects which would
enrich a museum, and train our eyes to a higher perception of beauty;
and we should learn to value our porcelain, not for its rarity, but for
its intrinsic merit.

Look at our picturesque coffee and tea pots, our elegant cups, and
well-painted bowls. Why should they always be concealed in china
closets, or consigned to kitchen-dressers, while our dining-room walls
are too often bare and cheerless?--a few dismal prints, hung too high
to be seen or easily dusted, being frequently the only adornments of a
darkened room, like a waiting-room at a railway station for emptiness
of anything to occupy the mind, yet which ought to be one of the
pleasantest and brightest in the house. Instead of which cheerful
appearance, here is a sketch of a regulation dining-room in one of
London's broadest brown streets: a room always dark in winter, but in
summer exposed to glaring sun and a plague of flies.

As soon as a window is opened to cool the stifling air, a simoom of
dust rushes in from the road, and from the dust carts heavily moving to
the slow music of the "Trovatore's" _Miserere_, adding a bass to the
noise of cabs whirling by to the waltz tunes of "Daughter Angot" and
"La belle Hélène."

Tables, chairs, and sideboard are remarkable for nothing but
representing so many tons of mahogany embellished with the grinning
heads of griffins. Curtains powerfully scented with dust, a large
chimney-glass made over to the flies, a heavy bronze machine with
ponderous weights and pulleys, all smelling very strongly of gas,
chiefly useful for casting deep shadows upon the dining-table. The
bean-green carpet, monotonizing with the pea-green walls, whereon hang
divers prints of subjects undiscoverable, because they are skied as
high as the ceiling will allow, and two "old masters," as two oil
paintings are called; one a bitumen-brown Wouvermans, or somebody else,
with the hind leg of a gray horse in the foreground, and in the sky a
patch of cloud caught in a tree. The other "gem" had been bought at a
sale under the impression that its subject was "Angels adoring the
Infant Saviour," but which on closer investigation turned out to be two
wicked old drunkards playing at cards, purporting to be by a Dutch
master.

Could even Giulio Romano's artistic festival have been enjoyed in such
a room as this, which is only a fair specimen of the modern British
banquet hall? Hear a short extract from Benvenuto Cellini's description
of it. After speaking of the rich dress of all the guests and the
beauty of the ladies, he continues: "When they had taken their seats,
every man produced a sonnet on some subject or other"--for they were a
company of poets and artists--"and Michelagnolo read them aloud in a
manner which infinitely increased the effect of their excellence. The
company fell into discourse, and many fine things were said, and dinner
was served up. Behind our backs there were rows of flower-pots, filled
with beautiful jessamines, which seemed to heighten the charms of the
young ladies beyond expression. Thus we all, with great cheerfulness,
began to regale ourselves at that elegant dinner. After our repast was
over we were entertained with a concert of music, both vocal and
instrumental, and an _improvisatore_ recited some admirable verses
in praise of the ladies."

We could only on very rare occasions have rows of pots of jasmine
placed behind our chairs, but we might easily grow an elder plant to
keep off the flies. The Swiss scarlet-berried elder (_Sambucus rufus_)
is graceful in growth, and will endure some hard usage.

Flower-pots may also be allowed to remain on the table, unless the
plants are cherished pets, and then they will be placed where they can
receive the sun and air.

Plants growing outside the windows, especially climbers wreathing the
window-frames, give an appearance of size to rooms by bringing air into
the perspective. The picturesque effect of the forms of foliage
relieved against the paler sky is very pleasing, and it breaks the
stiff straight lines of the window better than any drapery.

The glory of the dining-room is its large sideboard. This, where there
is a second sideboard, may be either in the same style or in complete
contrast to it. Here the larger pieces of earthenware and porcelain
should be displayed to advantage. These are such things as salad bowls
and outside pie-dishes, which may always remain in the dining-room, and
the whole of the dessert-service, with the ornaments and table
decorations.

The glasses and decanters should always be elegant, and although in my
opinion the Venetian glass is by far the most beautiful kind, still our
own crystal and engraved glass is often exquisitely lovely, and the
sunshine playing through the prismatic decanter knobs, and other cut
glass ornaments, gives an unrivalled lustre to the summer dinner-table.
Breakages under careful, delicate handling would be less frequent than
they are now, so that the expense of procuring glass and porcelain the
best of their kind would not be felt to be the extravagance it is now.

It will be said that for all this display of glass and china an
enormous sideboard will be required, at as enormous a cost. And the
first objection I concede, without, however, admitting it to be a
fault.

Why should not the sideboard be, if necessary, as large as the side of
the room? But the cost may be less than that of an ordinary
dinner-waggon. It might be constructed as a series of shelves, ranged
as high as can be conveniently reached, broken by cellarettes and other
cupboards or cabinets, hung with worked curtains, the shelves merely
backed by paper made like embossed leather. There is an infinite
variety of styles and forms in which the sideboard may be made; from
the gorgeous mass of carved oak and velvet, set with golden shields,
and cups, and services of gold plate, such as I have admired on the
dining-room walls of a palace built on the ruins of an abbey, down to
the stained deal dresser-shaped sideboard of a house of fifty pounds a
year, where it would only be decked with graceful, yet unpretending,
china and terra-cotta, where its curtains would be of brown holland
worked in crewels, and its intrinsic ornaments the burnished brass
locks, hinges, and handles. Yet as fine taste might be visible in one
as in the other.

The table-cloth, table-napkins, and spoons and forks should be laid in
drawers, as such seems their befitting place; and salt-cellars, and
other diminutive articles containing condiments, may be put away behind
small curtains, or veils, of decorative needlework, to shelter them
from the dust, as well as to give an opportunity for the display of
rich and elegant furniture embroidery, adapted in style to the
carvings, plaques, inlaid work, or other adornments of the sideboard.

The piles of plates--as many of them must almost of necessity be in
piles--will be also concealed and protected by curtains, or behind
doors turning on pivots, which, where they are available, are far
better than hinges.

The quantity of plates wanted for the daily use of the family must be
kept in the kitchen, as they will be washed there, and need to be
warmed in readiness for dinner; but dinner and dessert plates that are
not used for greasy comestibles will be rinsed in the dining-room, and
rearranged at once.

I know some old Bristol china butter boats of such simple but elegant
form, that the curves of the nautilus shell are hardly more graceful.
Yet these things had been banished to a kitchen dresser until I
implored their release; and now, in the present Bristol china mania,
they are promoted to a drawing-room table, a place quite as unsuitable
as was the kitchen dresser.

Among useful decorations for the sideboard, some of the prettiest I
have seen are the Venetian curved bottles for holding oil and vinegar.
They are fixed in a glass stand, and as the curved necks of the
flask-shaped bottles bend over across each other, by taking up the
stand either oil or vinegar may be poured out without spilling the
other condiment, and the flasks require no stoppers, as their curve is
sufficient to keep out the dust, though occasionally a glass dolphin is
stuck in the mouth of each bottle. This simple yet ingenious
contrivance is far prettier than our somewhat vulgar cruet-stand.
Moorish brass salvers add colour and brightness to the sideboard, in
families where silver salvers and presentation plate are not matters of
course.

A simple style of dinner is more elegant, as well as more healthful,
than one more elaborate. Let it vary with each day rather than with
every course: the dinner will thus preserve a character of its own,
better than where this is frittered away among so many dishes that you
cannot remember off what you have dined.

There is a medium between this fidgety _menu_ and the monster joints we
sometimes burden ourselves with. It requires judgment to take the right
line. We need not attempt, in our everyday dinner, to realize
Disraeli's ideal of dining: "eating ortolans to the sound of soft
music." But we may try to make our dinner an enjoyment as well as a
refreshment; and although our set banquets may be rare, taste and
attention will impart to every meal something of the character of a
feast.

Stress must be laid on the importance of having every article of food
in its due season.

Independently of the hygienic value of the change of diet so supplied,
which is in itself a substitute for many tonic and alternative
medicines, attention to this point will give us luxuries when we may
reasonably afford them.

Salmon is as nice when it is a shilling a pound as when it is four
times that price, and venison is by no means an expensive viand if the
market be watched. If we only think of ribs of beef and legs of mutton,
we shall only get beef and mutton. But if we take Nature for our guide,
we need not deny ourselves the most gratifying and healthful variety.
It is essential that we should eat the fresh fruits as they are ripe,
and this rule is equally necessary as regards vegetables.

Indeed, in summer we should accustom ourselves to think more of the
vegetable food than of meat; to arrange our dinner in this department
primarily, considering what dainty dishes we may concoct of flour and
vegetables fried, boiled, and baked, dressed with oil or milk, herbs or
spices, incidentally adding the meat--in fact, reversing our usual
order of proceedings, where we construct our dinner plan of solid meat,
only throwing in vegetables or fruit by way of garnish. But what I wish
to dwell on now is not so much the quantity of vegetable produce we
ought to consume, as the necessity of its seasonableness.

When our cooks, be they noble, gentle, or simple, have come to study
the medicinal properties of plants--how they act upon the different
organs of the body, and so on--they will see how beautifully they are
adapted by the great Provider to our bodily requirements, according to
the weather and other circumstances, and how often what grows best in
any situation or soil is the aliment best suited to our own growth in
that situation.

If we attended more to this point, our digestions would have
sufficiently varied exercise to keep them in healthy working order, and
we should hear less about what does or does not agree with people. It
is of more consequence that our digestions should be permitted to work
at regular hours, than that they should have an over-easy diet. This,
indeed, is absolutely injurious to them.

Persons sometimes feel ill, and whatever they may happen to have fed
upon is loaded with the responsibility, and that article of diet is cut
off for ever from their list, and its hygienic benefit lost to the
constitution. The blame is never laid on irregularity, want of air,
exercise, or occupation, excitement or perhaps temper, or upon
circumstances generally. Either the weather or the food, irrespective
of the quantity taken, is charged with every ill.

If we took care to make pictures of our dishes of fruit, they would
afford us two delightful sensations instead of one. To do this it is
not needful to have heaps of fruits, or pyramids of pines. A plum on a
leaf, an orange on a china tile, with a branch of flowers laid across
it, make exquisite pictures.

See how we appreciate the form and grace of a single flower in a
specimen glass, so that we cannot now endure to see the mass of crushed
flowers we used to call a nosegay; the very word, so descriptive of the
bundle, being done away with the thing itself. The old nosegay gave us
the scent and gay colours of the flowers, but their tender grace had
fled. Now they are delightful to their very stems.

Provident housekeepers have so impressed upon our minds the necessity
of caring for the future, that we have been taught to make jam of our
most delicious fruits, denying ourselves their fresh beauty and
fragrance at our tables, while we roast ourselves over preserving pans
in the hottest days of July. This, besides being martyrdom, is a work
of supererogation, as the fruit is nicer fresh, and to buy it for the
sake of keeping it is absurd, as it can but be eaten once. It is a very
reasonable practice in the case of persons possessing large
fruit-gardens, as much might otherwise be spoiled; but in our town
households it is trouble taken in vain.

We all know the difference it makes to our dinners whether they are
served up hot, or only lukewarm; and this alone gives a sufficient
reason why we should insist upon the kitchen being close to the
dining-room. Where there is no possibility of making a door of
immediate communication, we should try our utmost to get a slide-window
between the two rooms, so that the dishes, and indeed the whole
paraphernalia that necessarily moves from kitchen to dining-room, may
be placed on a slab at the said window on one side, and taken in at the
other side.

If two persons are engaged in performing this work, one dishing up and
placing on the window slab, and the other putting the things on the
dining-table, it will be very expeditious, but it may be quite easily
managed by one person. The slide-window, either a sash or a
sliding-door, saves much running to and fro.

I will conclude my remarks upon dining-room furniture with a few words
about plate.

The bulk of the plate in daily use in the houses of the upper
middle-class is electro-silver, and it is very admissible, being
strong, durable, and agreeable to use; and when made in the ordinary
fiddle or threaded patterns is useful without being pretentious. But
when it expands into Albert patterns, king's patterns, and the
like--when, in short, it claims intrinsic value, and pretends to be
silver--it becomes vulgar immediately, because it represents a snobbish
feeling which is bent on making a show with a sham. We cannot all
afford silver plate, though doubtless we should all like it, but all of
us wish to have the most agreeable medium with which to eat our food,
and for this purpose electro is as good as silver.

It is better, in purchasing, to buy the best quality, as it is so much
more durable, and it always looks better.

For dessert knives and forks, those with mother-of-pearl handles are
the best; the colour is so pleasant, and they are very easily cleaned.

Should you happen to be the fortunate possessor of old plate, let
nothing induce you to do as many weak persons are talked into doing:
exchange it for modern patterns.

Modern plate is seldom of even moderately good design. The object of
the manufacturer seems to be to crowd upon it as lumpy an embossed
ornament as possible, to make it massive, and remind us of so much per
ounce. This was not the motive of the old silversmiths, who more
frequently engraved than embossed their ornaments. Most of the old
engraved silver is delightful, and it is very light.

The Queen-Anne plate, now so keenly sought, is of admirable workmanship
and good design, though the edges are rather thin and sharp for comfort
in use.

It is worth while having nice electro dish-covers, as the ugly tin ones
sometimes seem to have such a very miserable appearance. It will not be
necessary to possess many, and they will come to no harm in our elegant
kitchen. They may be either hung up or stood on the dresser; the former
way is preferable, and rings to suspend them by are easily attached.
Dish-covers should be warmed before they are put on, as a cold metal
cavern chills a leg of mutton almost to the marrow.

Real silver ornaments for the dinner-table are very precious, but
failing these, we may make our tables very elegant with Parian, glass,
or even wicker ornaments; and the most interesting of any adornments
are vases and dishes painted on porcelain by members of the family. I
am sorry to see so many small vulgarities introduced in the shops in
the way of _menu_ holders, and other so-called ornaments.

Grotesque is all very well, but it should show a light, delicate play
of fancy; and things comic are very amusing when they are not vulgar.
But the degenerate caricatures we see about now, mark a tendency to
flatter the lowest order of taste, which, if followed, will inevitably
drag our conversation down with it. These silly table-decorations began
with caricatures of the men who carry the sandwich placards up and down
the streets, and daily I see them acquiring all the bad style of common
burlesques, or of the cheap valentines.




THE DRAWING-ROOM.

Social pressure--Agreeable evening parties--Troubles of party-giving
--Musical parties--Flowers on a balcony--Window-gardening--Crowded
drawing-rooms--The library or study--Gas, candles, and candlesticks
--Original outlay on furniture--Different styles of furniture--
Raffaelesque decorations--Carpets, curtains, and chair coverings--
Portières--Window blinds--Rugs--Care required in buying furniture--
Ornaments--Dusting--Chiffoniers useless--Portfolio stand--Mirrors.


This section of our subject involves our relations with society; and
here not even our vanity can make us believe that modern customs are
really improvements.

What chance has any lady of our time of emulating the graceful manner
in which Madame Récamier held her salon, although she may have as much
learning as Madame de Staël?

We are too heavily weighted, our social intercourse is too complicated,
too much clogged with ceremony, to move easily; and where our highest
faculties should be allowed full play, we find so much hard work and
consequent fatigue, that we look upon every dinner and evening party in
the light of an uphill road with a difficult team to drive.

We all know and applaud the French manner of visiting. Receiving
friends on a stated day of the week, simply enjoying their society, and
exerting the intellectual faculties instead of merely opening the purse
for their entertainment.

Why have we so seldom the courage to follow this example?

It is because we fear to show less well to the eyes of our acquaintance
if our own habits seem less expensive than theirs. A low purse-pride is
at the bottom of it all. Our dress must be costly and perpetually
changing, our servants and establishment must be displayed, if we are
ourselves smothered beneath their weight.

So we give up our precious daylight to morning calls, as we
ridiculously call those visits of ceremony which are paid in the
afternoon. These afford us no pleasure, while they are an infliction to
the people called upon. Do not most of us know the feeling of relief
that we have after paying a round of visits, when, on finding, as the
day was fine, the greater number of our friends from home, we return
with an empty card-case, and say, with the complacency of
self-satisfied persons who have done their duty, "There, that is done
and need not be done again for a month." Whereas we are sorry when even
our slight acquaintances "regret they cannot accept" our invitations to
an evening party, when we might enjoy their company, and they the
society of each other, at the same time, and at a reasonable hour for
enjoyment.

Our "at homes" are on a radically wrong principle. We crowd our rooms,
we insist on late hours and fullest dress, and our pleasure in
consequence becomes a toil.

But how agreeable is the easy evening gathering in a cheerful and early
lighted drawing-room, where few or many welcome guests drop in, knowing
it to be our "at home" day. Where we talk and sip tea, play and sing,
or amuse ourselves, if clever, with paper games--capital promoters of
laughter and whetstones to the wits--and go away as early as we please.
All to be over by half-past ten, at any rate, in order not to interfere
with early rising next morning. I have found nothing, not even guinea
lessons from eminent masters, more conducive to family improvement in
music than this way of enjoying society, since one is obliged to have a
few new things always at one's fingers' ends ready to perform; and in
homely little parties like these, young girls "not yet out" may pass
many pleasant evenings under their mother's wing, with real advantage
to themselves.

The simpler the dress worn by the ladies who are "at home," the better
the taste shown. Here again we may learn much from the French, who
perfectly understand the art of _demi-toilette_.

Our theatres and concert-rooms are filled night after night by people
who pay to be entertained. They never take food in their pockets, and
the passing to and fro of sellers of refreshment is felt to be a
nuisance. Why should people who have dined late be supposed to want
supper, unless they have been dancing, or are sitting up later than is
good for them? And the proof that they do not want it is in the very
little they take of it, except some stout elderly ladies who prepared
for it before they came, and who consequently have felt too low all the
evening to be moderately cheerful.

People who dine early always make a solid tea about six o'clock. It is
only the _bourgeois_ class who love their hot suppers, and the taste
stamps them.

How can we use hospitality one towards another without grudging, when,
instead of being able to rejoice that a friend is sharing our daily
pursuits and repasts, we must spend a fortune in jellies, pastry, and
unwholesome sweets, whenever we invite our friends inside our doors;
when we are compelled to import from the confectioner piles of plates,
dishes, and hired cutlery, turn our houses into scenes of confusion
for a week, and feed our children upon what have been aptly called
"brass knockers," the remains of the feast? No wonder most of us
dread giving a party! No; I would have special banquets on special
occasions--Christmas, comings of age, marriages, silver, and above all
golden, weddings, welcomes from abroad, and other joyful days. But our
enjoyment of society need not be limited to such observances as these,
but rather the crop of friendship increased by attentive cultivation.

"Has friendship increased?" asks wise Sir Arthur Helps. "Anxious as I
am to show the uniformity of human life, I should say that this, one of
the greatest soothers of human misery, has decreased."

Lady Morgan, an experienced leader of society, used to tell me, "My
dear, give them plenty of wax-candles and people will enjoy
themselves;" to which I add, manage the music well, and teach your
daughters to help you, and cultivate musical young men, keeping,
however, the law in your own hands.

Almost the only art we have not spoiled by machinery is music--for we
do not consider the barrel-organ in the light of music.

Perhaps it is because in this art we had scope for invention, not
finding a good thing ready made to our hands by the Greeks, which we
might imitate mechanically, and become slaves of its tradition.
Possibly it is a blessing in disguise that the music of the ancients is
lost to us, for having no models we have no fetters.

There is, however, in music, less liberty for the performer than for
the master-inventor; and this is as it should be: we interpret his
greater mind. Wilful music is seldom pleasing.

What Ruskin says about truth of line in drawing applies equally to
music: In the rapid passages of a _presto_ by Beethoven, the audience
at St. James's Hall would know if Hallé played one single note out,
even if he slightly touched the corner of a wrong black key; for our
ears have been wonderfully trained. And the time must be as accurate as
the tone, and the proper degree of light and shade must be expressed,
or you are no master. What must it be to be the creator of the music
which it is so difficult even to copy!

Yet in our drawing-rooms we permit people to talk all the time music is
being played, showing respect neither to the composition nor to the
performer. This should not be, and abroad this ill-bred custom has not
obtained.

There is, however, something to be said on the other side. The music we
hear in society is frequently either flimsy and not worth studying; or
it is too difficult for the capacity of the performer, perhaps having
been learnt in too idle a manner, in which case conversation shields
the composer.

But the chief cause of the distressing rudeness complained of, is that
there is too much music at a party, and it is not well arranged. Glees
are got up and fail deplorably; harps and flutes are not in tune with
other instruments; people accompany songs they have never seen before;
and much time and talk are consumed in wishing for absent tenor or bass
voices. A little good music would have been delightful; the noise of so
many imperfect efforts is only a bore.

In our parties we carelessly lose Nature's purest delights: those which
appeal most strongly to our finest perceptions. Is it not true
enjoyment to sit among the roses on a balcony listening to a sweet
voice within singing an air of Schubert or Mozart? And if the charm be
enhanced by moonlight, it is a pleasure for the gods!

It is true that roses will not flourish on London balconies, the
coal-smoke being so injurious to them; but pinks, and many other
fragrant flowers, grow well and easily, without the cost of frequent
renewal required for roses. The general use of window gardens, and the
due encouragement of greenery over our houses, would tend much to
improve our vitiated atmosphere, and we may have the gratification of
feeling that we are doing good to our neighbours while we cultivate
plants for our own benefit. Perhaps, by-and-by, a tax may be charged
upon every empty window-sill.

The front and back of every house would make a good-sized bit of
garden, only it will be perpendicular instead of horizontal. We ought
all to grow our own pears trained against the walls, as these ripen as
well in town as in the country; and most of us might dwell under our
own vines and fig-trees.

A balcony, however small it may be, is an extra room, and frequently it
is a good play-room for children if kept clean and well syringed. No
training is better for children than the culture of flowers--it unites
work and play with every advantage of both. It is an education in
itself. Mr. Gladstone calls the love of flowers a peculiarly English
taste. He seems to have forgotten the special fondness for plants shown
by the French and Belgians; though the Dutch tulip mania reminds one
somewhat of a commercial speculation. His remarks on the children's
flower-show held at Grosvenor House merit particular attention. He
observes that owing to the increased value of land, large masses of the
population are removed from contact with nature, and at this period it
is important that every family should learn that they possess a
resource in the cultivation of flowers both in their cottages and
windows, and at every point where contact with the open air may be
obtained. He hopes that with the needful improvements in the dwellings
of the poor, some means may be devised for fostering cottage
horticulture and cottage floriculture.

Wind and scorching sunshine are the great adversaries to window
gardening, but both of these evils may be obviated by simple
contrivances in the way of screens.

Very few plants can be cultivated in our sitting-rooms with advantage
either to themselves or to our furniture. They are greatly injured by
gas, as well as by the dry heat of our fires, while they cause a
dampness in the atmosphere which speedily produces mildew and other ill
effects of moisture.

We should bear in mind, in furnishing a drawing-room, that the guests
are the principal part of the furniture, and leave sufficient space for
the number we wish our room to hold. A drawing-room as empty as one of
Orchardson's pictures may be overcrowded by twenty people.

The walls may be adorned to profusion with objects of taste, without
their inconveniently occupying space; but tiny tables and flower-pot
stands are often in jeopardy.

In a room crowded with furniture the guests cannot circulate--one
because there is not space enough to pass between a lady's dress and
the small table with a vase upon it that is so likely to be upset;
another because an ottoman just before her keeps her a prisoner on the
sofa where she was planted on entering the room--until ladies are
thankful to do a little something inaudible at the piano as a pretext
for moving, and gentlemen are only too glad to be required to force a
passage in the service of a lady. And this not merely in the absurd and
terrible crush at an "at home" in the London season, but at a simple
evening party anywhere.

It is often agreeable to have several afternoon tea-tables in the
drawing-room, as the ladies can pair off at each, and become pleasantly
acquainted while serving each other. But in the case of large musical
"at homes," it is better to have refreshments served in the
dining-room, as the clatter of spoons and the bustle of waiting
disturbs the music; besides injury being often done by ice plates left
about, tea spilt, and crumbs trodden into the carpet.

We will now leave the subject of parties and study the drawing-room in
its ordinary appearance as the sitting-room of the family out of
working hours. A drawing-room should be used, and look as if it were
used, and if used properly it need never be dirty nor in disorder. A
library, or study, greatly aids the drawing-room by preventing its too
indiscriminate use. Indeed, where boys and girls have school-work to
prepare, this is almost a matter of necessity, as there is neither rest
nor comfort for their elders while lessons are going on; and if other
members of the family occupy themselves much in writing or painting, it
is a great hindrance to have to remove their paraphernalia every time
the table is required for some other purpose.

The room may be called a study, morning-room, or library, according to
its purpose, bearing in mind that although the name is more high
sounding, a library with few books is only ridiculous. And when there
are many and good books, the room must be held in great respect, and
those who use it trained to extreme neatness and order. I find it a
good plan to instal my eldest son as responsible librarian at a small
salary; he sees that the younger children put away their books after
them.

A gas-standard lights a study better than anything else for general
use, though "the Queen's reading lamp" is good for weak eyes.

The standard must be firm on its base, so as not easily to upset; it is
less in the way if it stands on the floor rather than on the table, and
it should be capable of being raised to the height of six feet, or
lowered to any point. It ought to be easily movable in any direction,
and the tube long enough to admit of its being placed in any part of
the room. The only kind of tubing that really prevents a disagreeable
smell escaping from the gas is the snake tubing. I had at first a kind
that was dearer than the ordinary india-rubber tubing, but, although
assured by the gasfitter that it would be inodorous, I was obliged to
change it for the snake, for which I paid twelve shillings, and have
had no trouble since.

We all know that wax candles are the nicest and most becoming light for
a drawing-room; but they are dear, and candlesticks, however elegant,
require frequent cleaning. The commoner kind of candles are greasy, and
grease is very troublesome when it drops about, though wax and sperm
are readily removed by warming the spots. There is a kind of candle
called the dropless candle which answers very well to its name.

Paraffin, and almost all patent candles, fill the air with burnt smoke,
and this, to many people, is insufferable.

Sperm candles are preferable to any others for general use at the piano
and for bed-rooms. And candles need not be an expensive item when a
house is well fitted with gas, as much music practising may be done by
daylight and gaslight; while in bed-rooms we ought not to require much
length of candlelight.

There is no need of more than one candle to be carried about, and that
is for the person who turns off the gas to go upstairs with.

An Italian _lucerna_ is a picturesque object for this purpose; oil is
burnt in it--colza will do, though they burn olive oil in Italy, and it
gives double the light of colza. On no account use petroleum, or any of
the mineral oils. Besides their horrible smell and associations, all
the kinds are more or less explosive, and for the little use for which
we should require lamps, the difference in cost is trifling.

One occasionally sees curious and quaint old iron or bronze
candlesticks, and it is well to seize the opportunity of purchasing
such treasures; but if not fortunate enough to get a better thing, it
is easy to procure one of those funny little brass candlesticks, in the
shape of a frying-pan, so commonly used in the Belgian hotels.

As there are no servants in our model establishment, tallow candles
need never be bought, and no candlebox will be required, nor any
kitchen candlesticks, to be stuck periodically in a row in the fender
to melt their grease and solder, and lose their extinguishers and
snuffers.

So we see, even in this small instance, how a young couple beginning to
furnish will want few of these superfluities, and, not being compelled
to buy common things for servants, may afford things of choice quality
for themselves, and to these they may add others as time goes on.

Take, for another example, the breakfast-cups; they may at first buy
two very pretty cups and saucers for their own use, and a third equally
pretty for their lady friend, or help, as they may like to call her;
and either title is honourable, only one seems kinder than the other.

And so they need not purchase what is called a whole set, or, more
shopmanly, a "suite," comprising a dozen of almost everything, whose
chief merit is in its completeness, of which we tire; and this merit is
destroyed when on breaking one of the two bread-and-butter plates we
find it is a last year's pattern, and cannot be matched at the shop
without its being specially made for us.

How much more we should be attached to a pretty thing if we could say
of it: "Don't you remember we bought that cup when So-and-So came to
stay with us?" Such associations endow everyday objects with life.

The original outlay throughout the house may proceed in like manner,
and spare rooms may be furnished after the other rooms.

This would enable more young people to marry, and they need not go to a
shop whose advertisements recommend them to furnish on the three years'
system, by the end of which time they will have paid double the value
of their furniture, and most of it will probably be discarded, or
broken in pieces.

Perhaps a day may come when nobody will heed an advertisement, and only
look at a circular when they write memoranda on its clean side. Then
our postmen will be spared the bulk of their work, which makes it a
perpetual Valentine's-day for them.

It is too visionary to hope that our eyes may cease to be distressed by
posters blazing everywhere, or that nearly half of every book or
newspaper we buy may not be made up of advertisements.

But no more on this irritating topic, as I would only counsel those
about to furnish not to be too much tempted with novelties, especially
patent novelties.

Some of us are beginning to tire of the mediævalism which was the
natural reaction from the preposterous designs of the wall-papers,
curtains, and other furniture which disguised our rooms--the ridiculous
carpets with such patterns as orange-blossoms tied with white satin
favours ("So sweet for a bride"), and rugs with huge blue roses.

But we have now gone too far the other way, and made all our houses
like "High" churches, not permitting even the simplest unconventional
design to interfere with the severity of our Gothic taste. This is a
mistake; for as our houses ought not to be turned into Greek temples,
as they were in the time of the first French Empire, as little should
they be decorated like Gothic churches.

Many styles, and many beautiful yet diverse objects, may be made to
harmonize by tasteful arrangement; and this freer latitude is well
adapted to our varied moods and our many-sided lives. Few people of
moderate means can carry out one style in its entirety.

I have seen a very handsome drawing-room fitted up perfectly in the
Louis Quatorze style, and spoiled by some German bead-mats on the
table; and some of the most beautiful upholstery I ever saw, of
Neo-Greek designs painted on straw-coloured satin, covering chairs of
purely Greek form, looked droll on a Brussels carpet with fuchsias upon
it.

Twenty years ago, people of taste and pretension to archæological
knowledge furnished their houses in the Elizabethan style, with the
result of uncomfortable furniture abounding in anachronisms.

The Queen Anne style, so fashionable at present, is far better suited
to modern requirements than is the Elizabethan, which is of necessity
kept exclusively English. The Jacobean style too is less rigid, as we
may with propriety consider that much French and Italian elegance had
been imported into the court of Scotland by the two French queens and
Mary Stuart. The possession of a portrait by Vandyke would be of itself
enough to make one wish to furnish a house in the stately and elegant
style of his time.

Although it may not be so pure in taste, the style of the Renaissance
is eminently adapted for comfortable household service. The delicate
arabesques and grotesques followed from Raffaelle's adornments of the
Vatican are not too precious for use in household decoration--where
painting cannot be expected to last as long as pictures framed and out
of reach of daily handling--and yet they are graceful enough to refresh
without exciting a tired mind.

Any one possessing artistic taste and some training can work out these
fanciful decorations for home gratification, and being cherished, they
will last three or four times as long as the graining of the
house-painter. Besides, and this is a great consideration in cities,
all the majolica ornaments and tiles, which are so suitable to this
style of decoration, will wash, and be bright and clear for ever. Do
not despise the Renaissance, for there is much delight in it, though
not of the highest kind. We may keep the higher things for higher uses.

A Brussels carpet of Persian pattern is very nice for a drawing-room,
as it is unobtrusive, and yet it is cheerful, and suits most styles of
furniture. This, like the dining-room carpet, had better be made with a
border, and so as to allow of a margin of the floor round it being
varnished. If edged with fringe its appearance is enriched; and I do
not in practice find the fringe inconveniently displaced by ladies'
dresses, nor in dusting, as I feared it might be when I added it to a
carpet which required enlarging.

The remarks on dining-room curtains and rods apply equally here, as it
is of great consequence that the room should be easily cleaned.

For a young couple beginning to furnish, it may be well to have some of
the pretty _cretonnes_ for curtains and chair-coverings, which would
last clean and bright while better were being worked on simple
materials from patterns, either original or borrowed from the Art
Needlework Society. Then the _cretonne_ curtains might be hung in the
newly furnished spare bed-room. The chair-coverings would be replaced
one by one as others were worked or nice materials met with.

In doing fancy-work, it is better to make one good thing large enough
to take a pride in, than countless little elegances, such as mats,
antimacassars, table banner-screens, etc., which seldom last long, and
are terribly in the way. The time consumed in making pincushions,
pocket-tidies, and tiny knick-knacks, would serve to tapestry a room,
let alone making curtains for it.

Where there are fine views from the windows, they are better framed as
pictures than curtained. Draperies, if they are very beautiful, are
more favourably displayed when facing the light (as in the case of
_portières_) than at the windows, where they are liable to fade, and
the light shining through them hides their beauty. Draught more often
enters from doorways than by the windows; and in summer doors are often
unhung for the sake of coolness and additional space, and the
_portières_ are comfortable to use on chilly days.

Venetian blinds are the best of any interior blinds, though window
awnings are much pleasanter in summer. Red tammy enriches the colour of
the room, but it is not agreeable to sit long in a room filled with the
flame-coloured light, though this softens as the blinds fade, which
they soon do. Yellow blinds are very disagreeable, and tryingly sunny
in summer. Blue are as unpleasantly cold, and make people look like
ghosts. White holland gives as soft a light as any, and if carefully
used the blinds will not go awry. Green tammy is good, but it soon
fades.

With a gas fire there is no occasion for a hearth-rug, though fur and
other large rugs look very comfortable spread before the windows in
winter, and Indian mats look cool in summer, and preserve the carpet
from fading.

In buying furniture it is safer to move cautiously. Seize, by all
means, anything that strikes you as being "just the very thing," the
moment you see it, or it may escape you for ever; but do not be
beguiled into buying a whole "suite" of everything at once, because you
think you may as well finish the work while you are about it, but let
your taste, as well as wisdom, have time to grow. We all know the
feeling of vexation we endure when we have committed ourselves to any
particular thing, and find subsequently something which would have
suited us very much better.

Whatever you buy or make, do not let it be rubbish. Things ill
considered get dreadfully in our way, and by-and-by we cannot endure
their discordance; that is, if they last long enough for us to weary of
them. When you purchase anything, remember that it has to be taken care
of and dusted every day, and the smaller the trifle the more
troublesome it is to keep clean. Think, before you buy it, whether or
not you will like it when it is tarnished, and if you can value it
sufficiently to devote thought and a minute of time to it every day for
years.

We squander our money on frippery--not in dress merely, but in hideous
ornaments for our fire-places, in antimacassars of disagreeably
suggestive name, in toys and trinkets and imitation rubbish of all
kinds, which encumber our table-surfaces, and are dust-traps occupying
the minds and mornings of our parlour-maids to keep them clean. We
spend in this taste-destroying trash the change of the twenty pounds
which would have bought one ornament of real beauty, which would only
take the same time to dust as one of the fifty frivolities costing from
half-a-crown to seven-and-sixpence each.

This is mostly so much waste, or worse, because it helps the habit of
foolish, ill-considered spending; and while we thus bedizen our
drawing-rooms, we render them so uninhabitable that they fall out of
use for our own comfort, and become merely show places for visitors.

A long article might be written on dusting. We can hardly have too
little of the carpet-broom (which all housemaids love to use every week
to the detriment of our carpets), and hardly too much of the
feather-brush for lightly touching curtains, walls, and pictures, or of
the duster for rubbing furniture. If a little is done daily, furniture
will never need polishing, but will always look bright, as dust will
not have entered the crevices.

It is easier, and also better for the durability of carpets, to take
them up occasionally to be beaten, and have the dusty floor beneath
them cleaned, than to have everything smothered weekly in the dust
raised by the carpet-broom. A pair of steps is necessary in a house
where cleanliness is attended to, to unhang curtains and pictures and
replace them after dusting. The walls need to be whisked over weekly
with the feather-brush.

The elegant china and glass gaseliers which are now so general are
easily cleaned with a damp sponge; those of Venetian glass are still
more beautiful, and not much more expensive: these also can be washed
with little trouble. Adopting the plan of cleaning one room each day,
it will not take a great deal of time, or cause much fatigue; while the
light daily dusting required is a mere nothing to any one doing it
dexterously.

I have a great dislike of chiffoniers; the very name presupposes them
receptacles of _chiffons_ and lumber. I cannot see any use for them in
a drawing-room. Music-books should be in the music-stand, a lady's work
in her work-table, and books either in use or put away in the
book-case.

A portfolio-stand is of great service in preserving and displaying
drawings and prints which require careful and practised handling. Sir
Felix Slade, the eminent print-collector, used to complain that many
persons, especially young ladies, made a bent mark with their thumbs in
the margin of an engraving; he always insisted on having his prints
taken up by what he called their north-west corner, and carefully laid
on the print-stand. A portfolio-stand should have a piece of stuff laid
over the books and cases, wrapped inside the woodwork of the stand.
This is easily removed when the stand is in use; as it is left hanging
down on one side, it keeps much dust from the pictures, and if of some
nice silk or other stuff is ornamental in itself.

A sofa with a rack-end to let down at pleasure at any angle is a great
convenience, but such couches are not often made, unless especially
ordered.

Numerous mirrors injure the repose of a room, causing bewilderment; but
one or two are pleasing, as they have the effect of water in a
landscape, repeating the lines and echoing the forms of objects. They
also tend to give space, though not to the same extent as pictures do,
which are the most decorative of all ornaments; and when they are very
good they rank with our most precious possessions.

Brackets may be appropriately used for ornaments, such as terra-cotta
and others; a few fine bronzes, besides being handsome in themselves,
give value to the colouring of a room.




BED AND DRESSING ROOMS.

Ventilation--Window curtains and blinds--Bedsteads--Spring mattresses
--Towels--Danger of fire at the toilet--Mantelpiece--Pictures and
frames--Superfluous necessaries--Taine's criticisms--Aids to reading
in bed--Service of the bath--Improvements in washstands--Arranging the
rooms--Attics made beautiful--Sick-rooms--Neatness--Disinfectants--
Chlorine gas--Condy's solution--Filters--Invalid chairs--Generous
efforts of the medical profession to improve the national health.


We pass a third of our time in our bed-rooms when we are in health, and
the whole of it when we are ill; therefore their ventilation and
general arrangement demand our most earnest consideration.

Some bed-rooms are draughty, occasioning cold and neuralgia, but the
more common fault is that they are not airy enough; for with our
extreme attention to what is called "English comfort," we too
frequently make our bed-rooms almost air-tight.

This causes restlessness by night and headache by day. It were far
better to accustom ourselves to sleep with our windows open, as the
night air is not at all injurious in dry weather, unless an east wind
is blowing. We must be guided by the weather, and trim to the wind; our
feeling will tell us whether we may, or may not, safely leave our
windows open much more surely than the almanac. The time when windows
should be shut throughout the house is when the dew is rising and
falling; then the damp enters and saturates everything.

People seldom attend to this point, but keep their windows open too
late in the afternoon, which in Italy is recognized as the dangerous
time. We have but little malaria in England, but what little there is
is at work just before and after sunset. Many persons, too, who like
myself have immense faith in fresh air, throw open their windows on
leaving their rooms in the morning, regardless of whether the air be
dry and warm, or whether a fog or bitter east wind will penetrate the
whole house to damp or chill it. It is more prudent, in case of bleak
or raw weather, to wait for an hour or two before opening the windows,
ventilation from the door being sufficient for the room while it is
empty.

It is useless to lay down laws as to the windows in our variable
climate. We must work by our natural thermometer, and let our skin
perform one of its most useful functions and tell us whether it is cold
or hot; but if our feelings are uncertain, give judgment in favour of
fresh air.

If your rooms have the old-fashioned long and narrow windows which are
always found in houses built in the reigns of the early Georges, the
Japanese paper curtains, being very cheap, are as good as any, the
intention being to drape a skeleton window, which curtainless is a
dismal object.

But more modern windows should not, or at least need not, have long
hanging curtains, but only just sufficient to cover the window without
leaving a streak of light. The drapery may hang from one side or from
both, according to taste; but unless you are very particular to admit
no light in your bed-room, a mere valance, or some ornament at the top
of the window, is enough. For instance, some pretty design in fretwork,
as the tracery of an Arabian arch, made of deal an inch thick, cut out
with a steam saw and stained or enamelled black, would be effective
when lined with rose colour, or any drapery suited to your room; and
you might furnish an appropriate design for the fretwork. This would be
easily dusted, and is not expensive.

White blinds are clean and pleasant for bed-rooms, but dark-green ones
are better for persons with weak sight; either these or Venetian blinds
are very useful where there are no shutters.

Brass and iron bedsteads have almost entirely superseded wooden ones,
and they are generally made without fittings for curtains. Indeed, in
our well-built modern houses there are so few draughts to be guarded
against that curtains are seldom necessary.

In bed-rooms of the present time valances to the beds are quite
superfluous, as the bed-round is completely out of fashion. This was
the name of the breadth of carpet which went round three sides of the
bed, leaving the remainder of the floor bare. The fashion was healthy
and economical, certainly, but it was tryingly ugly and cheerless.

For a bed-room, nothing is so good as the square carpet, with a broad
margin of the floor stained and varnished, as this is very easily taken
up for the floor and carpet to be cleaned. The carpet must be laid down
the first time by a man from the carpet-warehouse, so that it may be
evenly stretched, which is seldom done by a carpenter; but after that
it is easily spread, as it remains in shape, and needs very few nails
to keep it in position.

Bed-room carpets need not have brown paper laid under them, though this
is an advantage in other rooms, as it keeps dust and draught from
coming through the cracks of the floor, besides saving the carpet from
being cut by the edges of the boards. Kidderminster carpets are now
made in very nice patterns, and are quite suitable for bed-rooms where
Brussels carpets may be thought too expensive.

A hearth-rug is more useful in a bed-room than elsewhere, as a bed-room
fire should be of coal or wood, and not of gas, as this is injurious in
a bed-room.

Take care never to let the head of the bed be placed before the
fire-place. This is sometimes foolishly done, and unsuspecting sleepers
get neuralgia from it. In summer a pretty pattern, cut out in
tissue-paper so as to resemble lace, tacked on a slight frame covered
with black tarletane, and fitted into the fire-place, allows
ventilation and keeps out the dust from the chimney. Little girls love
to cut these fire-papers, and one of them, with care, lasts two
summers, and often three.

When there are no bed-curtains, it is sometimes advisable to line the
ironwork at the head of the bed, so that the sleeper may not be exposed
to draught. Spring mattresses, with soft woollen mattresses upon them,
are the most comfortable beds of any; and Heal's folding spring
mattresses, though expensive, cannot be too strongly recommended. These
spring beds are so easily made up, that this is a matter of very
trifling consideration in any house where there are two pairs of hands,
children's or grown-up people's. It is necessary to turn back the
bed-clothes completely over the foot of the bed, and leave it to air
for an hour, at least, after the window has been opened. There is a
great fancy now for having trimmed pillow-covers, and pieces of
ornamental needlework to spread over the bed after it is turned down;
the fashion is pretty, but superfluous, as a nicely worked counterpane
looks equally well, and need not be folded up at bedtime.

Towels may, and should be, ornamented, but not so much as to make them
inconvenient for use. The collection of linen exhibited by the Duchess
of Edinburgh gave many of us an interesting lesson in things of this
kind. One of the silliest pieces of finery seen in a bed or dressing
room is the trimmed towel-horse cover. Towels cannot possibly dry if
the evaporation is stopped, and even when the cover is made of thin
muslin, it is only a troublesome frivolity.

Every lady has her own particular taste about her toilet-table, so that
I only give a caution to let it be safe, and not liable to take fire.
We frequently want candles on our dressing-tables; therefore it stands
to reason that the veil often placed over the looking-glass is highly
dangerous. This drapery is intended to keep the sun from scorching the
back of the glass, but it is safer to stand the glass elsewhere than in
the window when the room is exposed to the midday sun, although it will
not be so pleasant for use.

The rose-lined white muslin petticoat which was once such a popular way
of concealing a deal dressing-table is highly dangerous. Indeed, it is
difficult to conceive any combination more inflammable than the veiled
glass set in the midst of cotton window-curtains, and two candles
standing on a cotton toilet-cover, with a frilled muslin pincushion
between them, and full muslin drapery below.

The most convenient table allows the large square-seated stool, so
comfortable to sit on while dressing the hair, to be pushed under it
when not in use. When light ornaments are placed on a bed-room
mantelpiece and exposed to a current of air, it is advisable to have
two upright pieces of board, painted, cut out, or otherwise made
ornamental, placed one on each side of the shelf to protect the
knick-knacks from being blown down; and if these are numerous, one or
two shelves may be put above the mantelpiece, forming a pretty little
museum of curiosities which may be too small, or too trifling, to be
placed with advantage in the drawing-room; and houses of the class I am
describing seldom have a boudoir. If the mantelpiece is covered with
cloth or velvet, the shelves and back might be covered with the same,
and this would be very becoming to the ornaments. Tunisian or point
lace forms a very good edging to a mantelboard, and when a foot deep,
or nearly so, it is extremely handsome. Water-colour sketches should
abound in a bed-room, souvenirs of places we have visited, or of
friends who have made the drawings, being doubly enjoyed when we are
recovering from illness, or when we are awake early in the summer
morning. Sketches are as pleasant as books, without the trouble of
holding them up to our eyes. They should be carefully arranged so as
not to look spotty; and they must be hung flat against the wall by
having the rings placed high in the frames, as, although it is becoming
to the pictures, the effect of them hanging much forward makes many
people giddy, and in an invalid will sometimes produce a feeling akin
to sea-sickness.

Neatly made frames of the cheap German gilding (which will wash) answer
very well for sketches hung in the less prominent situations in a
bedroom, and bring a luxury within the reach of many who would not
otherwise afford it.

Now I am come to the difficult part of my subject--the tug of war, in
fact--for I want men to do something for themselves, and women to do
without something dear to their hearts. I think I will speak of the
latter clause first.

In bed-rooms especially is seen that truly English love of superfluous
comforts which we mistake for civilization: it meets us everywhere, in
and out of the house, but it abounds in our bed and dressing rooms.

The amount of toilet so-called necessaries is incredible, and the
number of patent objects overwhelming. When we consider that seven
things only are necessary to our personal neatness and cleanliness--soap,
sponge, towel, and tooth-brush for washing, and brush and comb and
nail-scissors for the rest of the toilet--and then count the other
paraphernalia seen in our dressing-rooms, we shall discover how many
frivolous trades our superfluities maintain, to say nothing of
ingenuity misplaced in making advertisements of dressing-cases and
hair-restorers conspicuously attractive.

The toilet-table is not alone to blame: the fault pervades the whole
house and overwhelms the bed-rooms.

M. Taine, in his "Notes on England," amusingly describing an English
house, says, "In my bedroom is a table of rosewood, standing on an
oilcloth mat on the carpet; upon this table is a slab of marble, on the
marble a round straw mat--all this to bear an ornamented water-bottle
covered with a tumbler. One does not simply place one's book on a
table: upon the table is a small stand for holding it. One does not
have a plain candlestick: the candle is enclosed in a glass cylinder,
and is furnished with a self-acting extinguisher. All this apparatus
hampers; it involves too much trouble for the sake of comfort."

This was only a bachelor's room; what would the French critic have
thought of the aids to reading in bed in an ordinarily well-appointed
bed-room where the master indulges in that practice?

By the Englishman's bedside is also a small table standing on a mat,
and on this table another mat supporting a patent stand which screws up
and down, and on this another mat with a candlestick with a nozzle and
a patent protector of the candle from the draught, a glass shield set
in an ormolu frame which has an elaborate screw; and by the side of the
candlestick-stand another mat, on which is a patent screw for shading
the light from the aforesaid candle. Then, besides the extinguisher,
also on a stand and a mat, and patent matches in a patent box, he is
supplied with a book-rest which will turn in every possible way, with a
patent leaf-turner and leaf-holder, and a variety of other little
conveniences. He only lacks an electric communication between the
fire-escape outside and the patent night-bolt on his door, to prevent
him being burnt in his bed, to make the thing complete.

We feel how difficult we have made life by having to put all these
indispensables to their intended use. We have multiplied these patent
gimcracks until we cannot move without being crushed by our comforts;
and the keeping of all this in order obliges us to have under us a
parlour-maid, an upper housemaid, and an under housemaid, to wait upon
these inventions. Helps, in one of his essays, says, "I have always
maintained that half the work of the world is useless, if subjected to
severe scrutiny. My idea of organization would be to diminish much of
this useless work." The same remark applies to our luggage when we
travel. We take things fancying. We may want them, forgetting that it
is easier to do without an article once, than to have the trouble of
packing it and looking after it every day; so we bury our pleasure
under a heap of care.

I must give another extract from Taine's description of his bed-room
before I proceed to my second great battle-field, where I fear a harder
contest.

After describing his dressing-table, Taine goes on to say of his
washstand: "It is furnished with one large jug, one small one, a medium
one for hot water, two porcelain basins, a dish for toothbrushes, two
soap-dishes, a water-bottle with its tumbler, a finger-glass with its
glass. Underneath is a very low table, a sponge, another basin, a large
shallow zinc bath for morning bathing. In a cupboard is a towel-horse
with four towels of different kinds, one of them thick and rough.
Napkins are under all the vessels and utensils; to provide for such a
service, when the house is occupied, it is necessary that washing
should be always going on. The servant comes four times a day into the
rooms: in the morning to draw the blinds and the curtains, open the
inner blinds, carry off the boots and clothes, and bring a large can of
hot water with a fluffy towel on which to place the feet; at midday and
at seven in the evening to bring water and the rest, in order that the
visitor may wash before luncheon and dinner; at night to shut the
window, arrange the bed, get the bath ready, renew the linen;--all this
with silence, gravity, and respect. Pardon these trifling details, but
they must be handled in order to figure to one's self the wants of an
Englishman in the direction of his luxury: what he expends in being
waited upon and comfort is enormous, and one may laughingly say that he
spends the fifth of his life in his tub."

Men will do much for glory and for vainglory, even to using cold
shower-baths in winter, and boast of breaking the ice in them; but I
never yet heard of a man who would take the trouble to empty his bath
after using it. Now I maintain that every man who has not a valet ought
to do this. Few men consider the hard work it is to a woman to carry
upstairs heavy cans of water; but that is trifling, compared with the
difficulty to a woman of turning the water out of a large flat bath
into a pail. A man would find little difficulty in doing this; his arms
are longer, his back stronger, and his dress does not come in the way.

When a man likes to have his bath regularly--and who does not?--he
should think of the labour that half a dozen or more baths entail, and
in the evening prepare his can of water for to-morrow's use, place his
own bath on his piece of oil-cloth, enjoy his tub to his heart's
content, pour away the water, put up his tub, and say nothing about it.

This disagreeable lecture over, we will go on and see how easy the
general dressing-room arrangements might be made.

If, instead of our ordinary washstands with their jugs and basins, we
had fixed basins with plugs in them and taps above, much of the
water-bearing difficulty would be obviated. These washstands should be
placed back to back, as it were, in every two rooms, having only the
partition-wall between them, so that the same pipe would supply two
taps.

I have three sorts of basins in use in my house: one kind has the
ordinary tap and plug, another kind has handles for supply and waste,
the water being sucked away on turning the waste handle. This is safe
for careless people who let rings or any other articles drop in the
basin, and nothing but water can go down to choke the pipe. But the
basin I find easiest and most pleasant to use, tilts out the water by
lifting a handle, or rather finger-niche, in front of the basin; and
when this is let fall it strikes on an india-rubber pad beneath the
tap, so that the basin cannot be cracked. All these different basins
are fitted into marble washstands with dishes for soap and tooth-brushes
hollowed in the marble, with holes for drainage connected with the
waste-pipe below. These conveniences, with a housemaid's-closet with
sink and tap on the same floor, save all carrying up and down of pails
and cans of water, and, in fact, the heaviest part of a housemaid's
work.

Where the hall is warmed by hot-water pipes, water from the same source
will supply the bedrooms. It will be warm if the first quart is allowed
to flow away. Or the pipes may be connected with the kitchen boiler,
which, in the case of our kitchen on the ground floor, will not be so
expensive as where the pipes have to communicate with the basement.

Supplying the taps is perfectly easy when only cold water is required,
and children and delicate persons may be indulged with jugs of warm
water, which, however, every boy using should fetch for himself. We
should thus be able to dispense with ewers and toilet-cans, which would
at once pay for the fitting of the pipe and tap to each room.

It is better and nicer to use filtered water for the toilet-decanter,
and not water drawn directly from the cistern, unless it has been
tested and found pure. In such a case, which is rare, no decanter will
be needed, unless we like to have a Venetian glass one for the sake of
its beauty.

Let all persons, in dressing, replace the things they have used, and
spread their towels on the horse to dry; then the rooms will be set in
order for the day, only needing the daily dusting, which will be done
after the beds are made. Boys and girls who go to school should make
their beds before they go, so they must open them to air immediately
they get up.

"These seem little things: and so they are unless you neglect them"
(_Sir A. Helps_).

Everybody should have his or her own wardrobe, and keep it in order.
Men and boys and little children will have everything neatly made and
mended for them, and laid in its proper place; so all they have to do
is to leave the drawers as tidy as they found them, taking heed not to
lose their gloves and neckties; the larger things take care of
themselves. The secret of keeping one's clothes tidy is not to have too
many.

Of course, where there are no servants to provide for, the house has
fewer rooms than a family of the same size requires in our present
experience, and the uglier part of the house is abolished, or where not
abolished, is converted from servants' bed-rooms and attics--unpleasant,
dusty, and ill furnished; redolent of tallow candle, shoes, brushes,
and stale perfumery; with closed windows and the floor strewn with old
letters, hair-pins, half-empty matchboxes, and dogs-eared penny
novels--into a bower-like study or morning-room, where a young lady may
entertain herself and her own especial visitors. I have even known an
attic in Baker Street so converted by the invention and taste of a
young lady, as to live in one's recollection as as pretty a summer room
as any country rectory could boast, by being papered with bright
flowery paper all over its sloping roof, and its window made cheerful
with climbing plants and flowers; tasteful draperies, a work-table and
work-basket in embroidered green satin, book-shelves carved by friends,
a piano just good enough for practising upon, and water-colour drawings
on the walls.

I have known another room, cheaply fitted up in a French style by a
French lady, as a dressing-room, with looking-glass wardrobe and
painted furniture. A small bed in an alcove, in case the room might be
wanted as a spare room, and lace curtains drawn over the alcove. The
head of the bed and all its plain wood-work covered in quilted white
cotton in large diamonds, and cross-barred with narrow blue satin
ribbon, and large blue bows here and there. The walls papered with a
paper resembling quilted muslin. The effect was soft, clean, and
extremely pretty.

A few words on the topic of sick-rooms before quitting this part of the
subject.

In cases of severe illness it is advisable to engage a professed nurse.
She is a great help to the physician, and a support to the family, who
too often, in their love for the sufferer, overtax their strength, and
break down at the moment this is most required. No person can long
sustain night and day nursing, particularly if to bodily fatigue
anxiety and distress of mind be added; nor can they keep up that
appearance of cheerfulness which is such a support to a sick person. It
is a great mistake to attempt to do this in any case, but more
especially if it is likely to be a prolonged illness. A sister of mercy
is often found a most valuable member of the household under such
circumstances. People often talk of not having had their clothes off
for a fortnight. One's first thought on hearing this said is, how glad
you will be to take a bath! And one's second thought, what good did it
do the patient?

The sick-room should be kept as much as possible in its usual order.
The paraphernalia of illness distresses the sick person, causing
nervousness. Do not let physic bottles be visible in all directions, or
the patient will never feel well, and those in attendance will fancy
they have caught the infection, simply because they are nauseated with
the smell of the medicines, and the disagreeable sight of their dregs
left about in spoons and glasses. The medicines that have to be given
at stated hours should be neatly placed in readiness on a small tray,
near the clock if possible, so that they may be remembered and the
hours observed. Keep perfect cleanliness and neatness in the room, and
avoid clatter. Wear thin shoes, and do not let your dress rustle. A
woman's hand should at every touch improve or replace something, so
that there may never be a great bustle of setting to rights. We have
already spoken at length of ventilation: in sickness it must be
particularly attended to, as fresh air is the most beneficial of all
medicines.

At the time of the great cattle-plague, fumigation with chlorine gas
was advocated, and beneficially employed, by Professor Stone, of Owen's
College, Manchester. It is simple for domestic use.

One teaspoonful of powdered chlorate of potash should be loosely
stirred together with three table-spoonfuls of dry sand in an empty dry
pickle bottle; add to this nearly an ounce of muriatic acid; stand the
bottle on some warm embers in an old Australian-meat tin, or other
receptacle of this kind, and place it (with the embers in it) on a
shelf, or somewhere high up in the room, taking care not to scorch the
wood-work. The heavy chlorine gas will descend and so fill all parts of
the room, and in about three hours disinfection will be complete.

It would be a good thing if district-visitors, and other charitable
persons, would instruct the clergy and their poor people in such
effectual means of stamping out infection.

In all hospitals "Condy's solution" is placed with the water and towels
for the use of the visiting medical men. It is highly advisable to keep
this in every house for cleansing and disinfecting purposes, and for
the removal of unpleasant smells. It is useful in cleansing bird-cages
and gun-barrels, in preparing poultry or game, and in many other ways.

The solution may be made at home. The British Pharmacopoeia allows
four grains of the permanganate of potash (the basis of the solution)
to the fluid ounce. It is chiefly for external use. The permanganate of
potash is sold in crystals of two kinds: the most expensive is the
purple, which is used in what is called the ozonized water, a very weak
solution of permanganate, sold by chemists for toilet use. The cheaper
and more general disinfectant is a greenish coarse powder, sold by any
honest chemist at under five shillings a pound. It may be bought of the
General Apothecaries' Company, 49, Berner's Street, London, for from
three shillings a pound to three-and-sixpence, as it varies with the
market; and this does as well as Condy's patent, and is 500 per cent.
cheaper, as fourteen gallons of disinfectant may be prepared from a
pound of the powdered crystals, and these again will be extensively
diluted for use. The purple crystals may be bought by the ounce.

Be cautious in using this fluid, or the Condy, whichever you may happen
to prefer, as it turns almost everything brown that it touches. Very
deep stains will never come out; slight stains wash and wear out after
a time, but china and all white ware, and sponges and brushes, have
their appearance greatly injured by it. Bed-room floors may be washed
with it; they will be thoroughly purified, and the colour will be as if
they were stained dark oak previous to being varnished. Stains will
wear off the hands in a few days, and a weak solution will not
discolour them. The purple fluid is a test of water--if it turns brown
the water is impure. It decolorizes on contact with animal matter.

It is a useful plan to keep a filter on every floor of a house; the
expense is not very great, while the increased safety is incalculable.
Spencer's patent, or magnetic-carbide, filter is one of the best. He
imitated nature's process when constructing it, having observed that
the purest water filtered through oxide of iron in the earth's strata.

Two articles of furniture will be found of great use in a sick-room.
One is a chair back with bars of broad webbing, made to lift up and
down like the music-desk of a grand piano. This is a most comfortable
support to an invalid when sitting up to take food or medicine. When
closed flat it will slip easily under the pillow, and it can be raised
gently and gradually to the angle required. The other thing is an
arm-chair, stood and fastened on a board with four French castors. This
is a great assistance in cases of lameness or extreme weakness, as it
is easy for the invalid to sit on it and be wheeled to any part of the
room; and it costs less than a wheeled chair.

None of the learned professions have advanced during the last thirty
years so much as the medical. Medicine has become a new science since
it has taken hold of the sanitary improvement of our towns and
dwellings. The profession, with a disinterestedness and devotion to
science worthy of liberal minds, combines to make the prevention of
disease its aim, even beyond its cure. It forms a noble co-operative
society.

At the last meeting of the British Medical Association at Sheffield, it
was most truly said that independent medical officers of health would
before long change the character of disease throughout the nation, and
save future generations much misery. It is to be hoped that the
country, which will reap the benefit of their endeavours, will
strengthen the hands of those whose efforts are directed to raising the
standard of national health.




THE EDUCATION OF GIRLS.

To what age should boys' and girls' education be alike?--Accomplishments
fruitlessly taught--Nursery and School-room government--Helplessness
--Introduction to society--The convent system--Unhappy results--Scientific
education--Geometrical illustration--Religion--Professional life for
women--Home training--Varied knowledge--Companionship of a mother--
Experience--Kindness--Truth.


At what age should the training of boys and girls begin to differ? This
is a doubtful point, though we may consider that as, until about the
age of fourteen, their nature has been much the same, their strength of
mind and body nearly equal, and their tastes and dispositions much
alike, this may be the time when their training should begin to follow
each its own path; as the boy's strength grows from this time beyond
that of the girl, while she becomes more remarkable for the increasing
delicacy of her skill.

Practically there is a divergence when their clothing begins to differ,
but this is merely artificial. The girl is made to wear finer and more
delicate clothing than the boy; its texture and form impede her
movements, and it is more easily injured by the weather. But where a
girl is sensibly dressed, so that her clothes will not spoil with the
rain, nor prevent her moving her limbs freely, this diversity between
the two disappears.

But although it will not harm a girl to share her brother's pursuits
till the age of fourteen, the conditions of her so doing will depend
upon circumstances. Except in the case of twins, the boy will be rather
older or younger than the girl, if even she have brothers about her own
age at all, and many accidents will be found to control her education.
Besides these, nature works gradually, and there are seldom abrupt
transitions in her processes. The girl's future skill of hand and the
boy's strength of arm will be prepared for, and seen, in their
differences of taste and choice of pursuits and games; the girl will
prefer working for her doll and protecting it from the boy's rough
handling, and the boy will love his bat and knife. He will show his
instinct for construction, and she hers for preservation, after the
first early stage when both alike delight in destruction. Here
education comes into use, leading each child to exercise the good
instinct instead of its converse.

When the conventional proprieties are not allowed to warp the natural
taste, a girl loves running and climbing as well as the boy does: she
likes to collect stamps, minerals, fossils, birds' eggs, insects, etc.,
fully as much as he does. Their favourite books are identical, their
scrap-books equally enjoyed, the theatre and theatricals at home
delighted in by both, and their pets are much beloved. Why, then,
should we make so much difference between them where Nature has created
none?

Girls of the upper classes are always at lessons of some kind from six
years old to eighteen; thus they have twelve years of instruction, and
we know that of old a seven year's apprenticeship was held sufficient
to make a master in some craft. What do the twelve years do for our
girls? Does their training enable them to maintain them decently in any
one line? What have they learnt, and what can they do?

They have learnt music enough to play a _morceau de salon_ showily, and
the allegretto movement of a sonata stumblingly, and the latter only
because it was thought 'proper' that they should learn 'classical
music.' But they do not know enough even to learn another _morceau de
salon_ without the help of a master, so of course music cannot be
reckoned upon as doing much for them.

I place music first, because the most time has been given to it; a
weary hour every day, had it not been so broken up by visits to the
clock. Practical girls grudge this hour wasted on a weakness they are
sure to give up when they marry, for they all think they are as certain
to marry as to give up their music. They are healthy and strong and
have good voices, but few of them can do more than incomprehensibly
murmur a few lines of twaddle to a feeble accompaniment, or sing out of
all time the top line of a glee, provided the piano helps them out with
the notes. So here is a physical gift thrown aside.

Can anything be made of that pencil-stroking on buff paper, with some
splashes of white, which is held to represent a cottage, flanked on one
side by a gate-post which could never have been a good gate-post, and
on the other side by something smeary which is not at all like a tree,
nor any other created thing?

Every willow-pattern plate has a better landscape on it than that. So
there are two hours a week gone, for the lop-sided chalk head is of no
more use to anybody than was the landscape.

The girl has been taught French and German, but has not learnt enough
of either language to enjoy a good book, or to converse with
intelligence in either tongue, and her stock of dialogue-book phrases
is soon exhausted. Indeed, she can hardly talk better in English when
she gets beyond the depth of drawing-room chatter, as her knowledge of
facts is of a most uncertain sort; so in general conversation she
covers her deficiencies by slang, which, although it distresses us, we
forgive in a pretty, lively girl.

She cannot cook, how should she? She was never permitted to peep inside
the kitchen, but was kept in an upstairs nursery until she was six
years old, under the stultifying dominion of "nurse," whose sole
training was "Miss, I'll tell your ma," when wicked or cruel teaching
did not replace this feebleness. When she was promoted to the
school-room and made over to the care of the governess, the system of
instruction was little more satisfactory. The list of the Kings of
England superseded standing in the corner as a punishment for
weariness, but her chief experience of life was gathered from tales in
cheap magazines, read surreptitiously; and as she grew older, the
railway novel by a sensational author replaced the serial in the penny
paper.

The child saw her parents together for a quarter of an hour in the
evening, when she was full dressed to go down to dessert, and her
mother for about five minutes in the course of the morning, when she
came up to the school-room to find fault with the governess for the
children's bad grammar, or awkward behaviour, on the previous evening.
The round of the year brings the sea-side visit. Here, although health
is gained, there is no education beyond lodging-house gossip. The
children are put into the train like so many parcels, and in so many
hours are somewhere else; frocks suited to the sea-side are put on them
by the nurse, but these might have dropped from the clouds, and the
children have been none the wiser. Helplessness is the natural outcome
of all this.

The school-room course begins in about six years to be agreeably
diversified by the visits of music and drawing-masters; which, if the
governess did not sit in the room all the time, trying to attract their
admiration, would be a really pleasant change. But nothing comes of the
lessons beyond the showy _morceau de salon_ aforesaid, the buff-paper
drawing, and the weak rhyme jingled to an accompaniment in quavers;
except an increase of energy in borrowing, or hiring, yellow-covered
books revealing stirring impossibilities in the lives of Edwin and
Angelina, over which a girl, according to her disposition, may weep or
rage. For this is the only outlet for her poor imprisoned life, until,
on her introduction to society, she is suddenly flung upon the world,
to make her way as best, or worst, she can; and now, and now only, does
her real education begin.

This manner of bringing up our girls differs from the convent system in
this, that it is worldly instead of being religious, and needlework and
confectionery are worse taught; other things are about equal. Both we
and our continental neighbours imprison our girls in a school-room or
convent for twelve years, and yet boast of our superiority over the
Turks!

After this, can we wonder at the weakness or the folly of girls, or be
surprised that society is at a dead-lock, or that our women eat bitter
bread?

Can we marvel that women ruin their husbands by their dress and
extravagance; that they drive them to their clubs for companionship,
and freedom from the wretchedness of home; that they tyrannize over
their milliners, and are in their turn tyrannized over by their
servants; that their sons drink the brandy and smoke the tobacco of
idleness, and that their daughters grow up the patterns of themselves?
Only where the mother is passively useless, the daughter will be
actively mischievous; where the mother was merely frivolous, the
daughter will be actually wicked.

Does all our boasted culture come to this; or will Cambridge
examinations and a scientific education set all right again? When an
hour a day, at least, for twelve years passed in the study of music has
failed to implant those habits of accuracy which this beautiful science
so pre-eminently combines with sweetness and grace, is a smattering of
geology certain to succeed? Will Greek strengthen the character more
than German? Or is one as likely as the other to puff the mind with
conceit, where it does not equally encourage a deceitful appearance of
knowledge. And is the new system better calculated than the old one to
prepare girls for fifty years of womanhood?

People talk of depth, as if truth were only to be found at the bottom
of a well. What seems most wanted is breadth, free expansion all round
to keep the soul healthy. Let every branch have due encouragement to
stretch out towards the light, to receive the shower or sunshine as
they come.

Some careful mothers say, "I keep my girls exclusively at 'studies' for
the piano; they make such a good groundwork." This may be so, but
finger training is not everything. The poor girls have had their souls
so sickened over melancholy minor "meditations," that their hearts are
closed to the tender or joyous melodies of music, and its rich,
majestic harmonies.

Point out these things to the young, who will love them, at first
blindly, and afterwards with a gradually developing appreciation.

Here a little, there a little, is a true precept in education. A thing
can never be completely taught, for there is infinity everywhere. How
rarely we can begin at the beginning, or even the unit, of anything;
multiplication and subdivision meet us at both ends, besides all the
collaterals.

I have ever observed that those girls who have been the greatest number
of years at the same school know the least, and are the most stupid. It
is better to let children go to many different schools in succession,
than to remain long in one: they gain more experience, while the
chances of their learning evil are the same in both cases. In public
schools as boys go up through the forms, they meet different sets of
masters and subjects of study, so that these are, in fact, fresh
schools.

To use a simile which will be intelligible to this generation, women
have been treated as if they were stones. Left shapeless under the
school-room prison system, they are only fit to be broken up for the
roads, as they will fit in nowhere. Our well-educated ancestresses,
down to the time of Hannah More, were formed into cubes, very solid and
steady on either of their bases, and suitable for many buildings,
though the finer kinds of stone are in this manner misapplied. Modern
science gives the stones more sides, and, while seeming to round them
into more adaptable forms, only produces a number of small facets,
making a somewhat polished dodecahedron, which rolls about in any
position and is of no particular service, except, maybe, to stick upon
a gate-post at a girl's school, though it has given a great deal of
trouble in the cutting. But the hourly guidance of the loving hands of
father and mother, aided by raspings and filings of circumstances, and
many blows from chisels more or less severe, produces at last a
beautiful statue, well shaped in all its parts, which becomes a perfect
and nobly planned Galatea. What is the best training for girls? That is
the question. What are they to be, or not to be?

We have tried hitherto to bring up our girls so that they may be fitted
for the high position here that we all wish they may attain, making
their education tend solely to pleasure; forgetting how easily the
nature of woman adapts itself to any superior station, and how soon it
seems like everyday life, however high the rank or great the wealth to
which a girl may be suddenly raised.

We teach religion, when it is taught at all, under the head of
"divinity," at school, where it is put on a par with the
multiplication-table; or as a series of "religious duties," to be
performed once a week and rendered as irksome as possible, quite
ignoring that everything we do is our duty towards God, or towards our
neighbour, which is part of the same duty; whereas we ought to train
our girls for "duties" here, and give them joy in preparing for their
high position as daughters of God in heaven. We should let our divine
life so permeate through every hour of our stay here, that it may be
the vivifying light shed upon everything we are concerned with, making
the trifles of this life unfold their beauties, comforting sadness and
gilding poverty, as the southern sunshine lights up squalid dwellings
till they shine like gold and silver, and makes rags glow with light
and colour.

Our ideas have changed lately, and now we seem to think that all girls
who are not born to high position here must of necessity be trained to
professional life. But, after all, the demand for certified teachers,
heads of ladies' colleges, doctors, and other learned professions, will
never comprise the great bulk of the number of willing workers among
the unmarried women of England: nor do these things constitute a
quarter of the work to be done.

Instances of marked talent or decided turn for some particular line of
study should be furthered and fostered to the utmost, consistently with
the possibility that after all the vocation may not be carried into
effect; but women are really more valuable, and more likely to be
happy, in what it is old-fashioned to call the sphere of a home.

And this is best prepared for by home training; which does not mean
being pushed aside so as to be out of the way, and shut up in the
nursery or school-room, but enjoying the companionship of a judicious
and sensible mother, and the freedom of the house--where the child will
be taught to behave herself properly, and be useful and obliging; where
she will have regular hours of study with her mother, her governess, or
at school, and yet have opportunities of seeing how everything is
managed in the kitchen and throughout the house, being allowed
occasionally to do some little thing herself, and so acquire some of
the needful practice; where she can be taught needlework and the proper
use of many tools; learn to carve, to cut bread and butter, to help
dishes neatly at table, and gain a knowledge of gardening and
green-house culture.

Children should be permitted to look on at the proceedings of all
workmen employed in or out of the house: the glazier, gasfitter,
gardener, carpet-stretcher, carpenter, locksmith, and piano-tuner; the
exceptions being the dustman and the sweep, because of the dirt.

How much money might be saved in a house if people understood the use
of a few tools, the construction of a few fittings, or could take a
piano to pieces and tune it. If a bell-wire is broken, a man is sent
for; he charges half a day's work and some materials, and generally
makes a little bit of work for some other tradesman, whereas a
knowledge of how to unscrew and take off the bell-cover would often
enable a piece of copper wire to be joined, and the bell set in order.
How often people fail to force down a window whose weights are just
over-lapping, where a blow with a mallet on the shutterbox would have
shaken them into their places; or, failing that, the box containing the
sash-weights might be opened by taking off the beading near the
window-sash, the cords and weights put straight, and the beading
replaced by hammering the brads. But no; we send for a man.

Our water-pipes burst in winter, because during a hard frost we have
not taken the precaution to turn the taps so that a few drops may pass
to relieve the pressure in thawing.

We cannot even frame and hang up a picture when we have painted it, or
cover a chair with the piece of needlework we have made. We do not know
how to renew the cord of a spring blind, nor many a little thing
besides; and yet any one who keeps a house in order knows how
constantly these things are recurring, and what a source of expense
they are.

Girls should be taken out shopping that they may learn the names and
qualities of things, the quantities of material required for different
purposes, and the value of money. The knowledge of how much it costs to
clothe a child will teach them more practical arithmetic than any
amount of extraction of the square root, and give an interest to their
tables of weights and measures besides. Let Euclid be learnt by all
means, if desired; but if it is only done for the sake of training, and
not to aid some particular purpose, as good, if not as exact, training
may be found in some study leading to a pleasing result, such as music,
drawing, or knowledge of architecture, as from the pure mathematics.

Let the girls learn to fit their clothes exactly, estimate the needful
quantity of material, and calculate the cost of the quality. When the
mother is considering the size and price of a new carpet, if she
consult with her daughters about it, it will help their judgment at the
same time that it improves their arithmetic. Let girls learn to write
notes of invitation and letters of business, and write orders to
tradespeople; let them accompany their parents on house-hunting
expeditions--it is a school in itself--or when furniture is bought.
Elder girls may go with their mothers when they are treating for
schools for little brothers, and when servants are hired, or evening
parties catered for; when lodgings are taken for friends, and a
thousand and one other circumstances.

It is all experience, and of the kind those girls never gain who are
always at school-work; so that those who have not this knowledge begin
life many years behind the home-trained girls, and commit many follies
owing to their want of it. It need not be feared that this experience
will destroy a girl's charm of manner. Ignorance is not simplicity, nor
silliness a grace, neither are awkwardness and affectation as dignified
as self-possession.

I would on no account depreciate the efforts made for the higher
education of women. No one rejoices more than I do at seeing things
more thoroughly taught. Still, we cannot rest content with crumbs of
science; female education must be filled with the milk of human
kindness. It is not the nature of woman to stand Alp-like alone, with
one peak seeming to pierce the heavens; she should be like the
spreading tree which gives shelter and enjoyment to all within its
influence, its roots being firmly fixed in the good ground.

The nursery training for children is merely repressive. They are told
not to be naughty, not to be greedy, not to break their toys, not to be
noisy. Whereas a teaching more calculated to develop their intelligence
would substitute some interesting occupation to counteract their
naughtiness; such as mending a toy they have broken, which would
delight them more than any new toy; and having seen the trouble it took
to mend it, and the time it took to dry it, they would learn
carefulness. If they wish to shout at inconvenient times and places,
teach them to sing a chorus, and if the noise is too great, let them
sing one at a time. If they are greedy, which often means hungry, for
children need frequent feeding, give them a piece of bread.

But although tender kindness is the best of nurture, on no account let
it degenerate into weak indulgence. Compel instant obedience to the
slightest word, the minutest direction, enforcing habits of attention
and discipline. Never let children be obtrusive or feel that they are a
power in the house; and require of them the utmost respect to elders.

The good example of parents is the safeguard of the children. If they
show reverence to all that is lovely, children will do so too. Above
all, parents should never break a promise, nor ever deceive their
children, even in play, or children will not honour their word.

I do not like to see mothers or nurses take away from a child something
they do not wish it to have, and hide it, and pretend not to know where
it is gone; yet this is a very favourite form of play, and deemed quite
innocent. Surely it were better kindly, but firmly and openly, to
remove the object and turn the attention from the loss.

I hope these few remarks will be found useful. I have tried to keep
them brief, but in writing on so important a topic as that of
education, it is difficult to bear in mind the clever old French
saying, "Woe to him who says all that can be said."




SUNDAY.

Children's Sundays made wearisome--Sunday precious to workers--Moral
workers--Moral vices--Our gifts--Misuse of them--Necessary work on
Sunday--Diminished by management--Sunday prevents us living too
fast--The rest must be earned--Sunday repairs the human machine.


Do not let Sunday be turned into a day of dread to the children. It is
the day which the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it. For
years I lived in terror of the Sunday, and I feel for children who,
being brought more into the presence of their elders on that day, are
consequently more exposed to reproof for their natural animal spirits,
which are trying to jaded and irritable persons. An only child, I was
taken twice a day to a church built in the dismal style of the reign of
George III., and put into a high pew, "shut up in a cupboard," as I
have heard a little child express it, where I could only see a
frightful ornament like a row of teeth in painted woodwork that ran
round the upper part of the church. I sat contemplating this through
the long low church service and sermon, of which I was too young to
understand a word. The remainder of the day was filled up with collect,
epistle, and catechism, Bible questions to write and answer, the text
to remember, hymns to repeat to visitors, and a prolonged dessert, with
half a glass of sherry, which was like a dose of physic to me. The
"Life of Joseph" was my only recreation.

Too often is Sunday given up to the display of toilet vanities out of
doors and listlessness at home. Those who have been really working
during the week know well what a blessing the Sunday rest is. Those who
have been idle cannot expect to feel this, and they experience such a
flatness in the quietly kept Sunday that they regard it as a weekly
penance which interrupts their pleasures. But they ought not to have
allowed themselves to get into this condition of feeling. There is work
for all in the world; none but the dead have a right to be idle.

As Kingsley justly asks: "If vanity, profligacy, pride, and idleness be
not moral vices, what are?" What is more common than to find pride and
vanity leading our women to idleness, and that extravagance and craving
after gaiety which are the feminine form of profligacy? And Kingsley
goes on to show that beneath these vices, and perhaps the cause of them
all, lies another and deeper vice--godlessness, atheism.

"I do not," continues he, "mean merely the want of religion, doctrinal
unbelief. I mean want of belief in duty, in responsibility. Want of
belief that there is a living God governing the universe, who has set
us our work, and will judge us according to our work."

Why are our noble gifts given to us; such gifts as these--

    "The reason firm, the temperate will,
    Endurance, foresight, strength, and skill."

Is it that we may become "tolerably harmless dolls?" How shall we
answer for having used our endurance only so much as may make us wait
with common patience for next month's number of _Belgravia_; our
foresight in choosing a pattern for a mantle which shall be fashionable
enough to be worn next autumn; our skill in crochet-work, and our
strength in skating on the outside edge.

No wonder we do not value the Sunday rest. We know that heavenly
mansions are being prepared for us to enjoy the heavenly rest in, and
that we must prepare ourselves for these mansions, or we shall not be
permitted to enter them. Then let us take pains to prepare our earthly
houses for the right use of the day of rest, and be able to go up to
the house of the Lord with the multitude that keep holy-day.

We should so put our houses in order on Saturday that we may really be
able to rest on Sunday. Some works of necessity must be done, such as
the dinner prepared; but by dining early, and doing as much as possible
on the previous day towards its preparation, the labour may be reduced
to a minimum.

There will be no needlework, no cleaning or dusting, no marketing to be
done on Sunday. Pies and tarts should have been made on Saturday, a
double quantity of potatoes and other vegetables prepared, and a
general foresight used.

Sunday is a good day for sending out a large joint to be baked, and a
pudding also; indeed, this seems the opportunity for the national roast
beef and plumpudding dinner. So that, in fact, beyond laying the cloth
and removing the things used at meals, there is absolutely no work to
be done beyond the five minutes' daily occupation of each person in
making his or her own bed, as the re-arrangement of the used dinner
things may be left till the following morning. The table is cleared as
if by magic, if every child is told to put in its place two things, or
three things, according to the number of things used and the number of
children to put them back. Each person replaces his or her own chair,
and the Sunday work is over. Life is not so hard to us as it was to the
country squire's wife half a century ago, who always gave her servants
physic on a Sunday because it was no loss of time. To us the Sunday is
very helpful in another way: it keeps us from living too fast; without
this wholesome stop we might drive ourselves on to frenzy.

Many if not most of us feel lazy and desultory on Monday morning (which
therefore had better be employed on some kind of desultory and
irregular work), and we only get ourselves warm in the harness by the
middle of the week. We go on working with gradually increasing
excitement until Saturday night, when some sensible friend hints that
it is too late to make a bad week's work good; precious Sunday comes to
ease the strain, and the human machine is oiled and cooled.

Let us be diligent during the week, and lengthen our days by beginning
them earlier, so as to do most of our work in the morning; then with a
clear conscience we may leave off our play as early as we please and go
to rest: we shall enjoy the Sunday repose which we have earned, and
find ourselves refreshed instead of wearied by it.

I will conclude this essay in the words of Macaulay--words which he
considers among the very best he ever wrote. "Man, man is the great
instrument that produces wealth. The natural difference between
Campania and Spitzbergen is trifling when compared with the difference
between a country inhabited by men full of bodily and mental vigour,
and a country inhabited by men sunk in bodily and mental decrepitude.
Therefore it is that we are not poorer but richer, because we have,
through many ages, rested from our labour one day in seven. That day is
not lost. While industry is suspended, while the plough lies in the
furrow, while the Exchange is silent, while no smoke ascends from the
factory, a process is going on quite as important to the wealth of
nations as any process which is performed on more busy days. Man, the
machine of machines, the machine compared with which all the
contrivances of the Watts and Arkwrights are worthless, is repairing
and winding up, so that he returns to his labours on the Monday with
clearer intellect, with livelier spirits, with renewed corporal vigour.
Never will I believe that what makes a population stronger and
healthier and wiser and better can ultimately make it poorer.

"If ever we are forced to yield the foremost place among commercial
nations, we shall yield it not to a race of degenerate dwarfs, but to
some people pre-eminently vigorous in body and in mind."


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